On the contrary, it may make some people addicted to material desires, anxious about the future and confused about their choices.
People who really live to the extreme are often simple and introverted; What is really advanced is "slow" and "less".
0. Information Trap
Modern people are exposed to a lot of information, but their ability to think independently and deeply is deteriorating.
1. Reject receiving information passively.
2. After receiving the information, you should recall it, review it, think about it, and then act immediately to internalize it.
2. Get into the habit of doing things according to the plan.
1. materialist trap
There is a theory of "indulgence" in communication: young people who were originally poor may be ignited instantly after seeing a wide range of goods through the media.
The poorer people are, the more likely they are to be captured by voluntarism, the more they need to satisfy their vanity through high consumption, and the more likely they are to fall into material desires.
But whether you can control the fire of consumption desire depends on whether your financial situation is healthy or not.
1. Buy only when necessary, and don't pay passive attention to shopping information at ordinary times.
2. Do your homework before buying and buy suitable products with good quality.
3. Is it necessary to think before buying?
4. Buy one and get one free.
5. Develop the habit of keeping accounts and saving money.
6. Reasonable regional planning of fiscal expenditure.
7. Clean things regularly for one year.
Opportunity trap: People who want to try any opportunity are the most stupid.
You don't need to seize all the opportunities, you just need to find the one that belongs to you.
Then it is enough to cultivate one's own advantage a little and keep it through constant iteration.
In the process:
You should resist countless temptations, long and restless hearts, and cultivate iron mouth, Kouga and wooden ass; Don't pay attention to short-term price fluctuations, breaking news, opportunity windows and the success of others;
You just need to pay attention to your long-term value and build a product or core competitiveness that can stand the test of time.
You don't need to find opportunities to change tracks often. You just need to find a good field, work hard, broaden your horizons, narrow your incision, study hard and keep your advantage for a long time, and you will surely win.
Kung Fu was done before into the pit. The most reasonable attitude towards opportunities is: don't advance lightly, don't retreat lightly.
Facing the opportunity, we should study and think deeply and seize the appropriate opportunity decisively; Now that you have realized it, don't give up easily even if you encounter setbacks.
1. Do research and analysis before doing things. The more detailed the research and analysis, the greater the chance of success.
2. After seizing the opportunity, cultivate your own advantages bit by bit, and keep this advantage through constant iteration.
Don't let outside information affect you. First practice internal strength, pay attention to your long-term value, and build a product with core competitiveness.
When you have a foothold, radiate other aspects.
I understand that there are three sources of wealth.
First, earn money on your own.
Second, rely on your own skills to make money by investing.
Third, high-risk investment.
These three aspects should be done in turn.
Summary: If you find a good field, work hard, broaden your horizons, narrow your incision, conduct in-depth research, and maintain your own advantages for a long time, you will surely succeed.
On Taobao, the smaller the segmentation, the easier it is to succeed.
Case: Gao Yan Capital, a well-known investment institution, is a model of this strategy.
20 14, the online dividend is far from fading. Many investment institutions believe that an aging society is coming and are ready to enter the field of old-age care on a large scale.
However, Gao Ling did not follow the crowd, but thought in reverse. It is believed that the elderly need companionship in the future, so the pet market has great potential. Even so, Gao Ling did not rashly enter this field, but made a detailed and in-depth study of this field.
Gao Xian specially sent executive directors to lead a research team of hundreds of people to sort out the information of the whole industry in two years: national consumption level analysis, pet segmentation trajectory pattern, maps of pet hospitals in various provinces, and maps of key figures in the industry. ......
Gao Ling's research report has made many KOL-level experts who have been deeply involved in this industry for decades feel ashamed.
After in-depth understanding, Gao Jie decided to enter this field in an all-round way, and gradually cut into pet hospitals, pet shops, industry SaaS systems, supply chain finance and so on. They are ubiquitous in all aspects of the pet industry.
With the speed of opening 300 stores a year, Gao Yan has integrated the brand of pet hospitals in more than 0 cities in China. Three years later, the number of pet hospitals invested by Gaoling has reached more than 700, ranking first in the industry in absolute number.
By 20 18, when many anxious investment institutions realized the potential opportunities in the pet field, they were shocked to find that the industry had become a lofty world.
1. You must have an idea before you do something, and then study, prove, supplement and perfect your idea. Is to make a plan.
Question: 1. How to investigate individuals?
What you want to do in this world is already being done by people, you just need to find out how they do it and make use of it.
So how to find it?
Pay for consulting insiders?
3. Pay attention to investment institutions, can you find market trends?
Energy trap: 99% of things in the world are unimportant or have nothing to do with you.
One of the signs of a person's maturity is to understand that 99% of the things in the world are unimportant or irrelevant.
It is these things that are neither important nor urgent that consume your precious energy.
Simplify your life and do the most important things.
The simple plan made every day can't be completed, because the attention is always unconsciously attracted by other information on the mobile phone, and I always feel that one or two articles are short. In fact, there is very little time available every day, and it is often impossible to complete the plan with such consumption.
Seek information actively, not passively.
What is truly advanced is not "more" and "faster", but simply "slower" and "less".
I have 20 suggestions on how to be simple and restrained:
0 1 Never borrow money to spend, the cost is far greater than your imagination.
Shopping follows the principle of "one out and one in", and the mountain of goods at home is an important reason for the decline of happiness.
Common necessities, expensive ones are more durable Not a necessity, don't buy it.
Do a good job in financial planning and force 30% of savings income every month. Don't think you can't do it I have met many people with low wages, but they still live well after their wages have been reduced.
If you are in debt, please tighten your belt first. Don't wait for the debt snowball to roll, the avalanche is caught off guard.
Throw things regularly. What you can't use in six months may not be used after six years. Timely clean up expired food, medicines and daily necessities.
Whether you choose an opportunity or start a relationship, you should be careful. If you are not careful in the early stage and find inappropriate people in the later stage, you will spend 5 times, 10 times of energy to clean up the mess.
Clean up those WeChat friends who always send friends circle advertisements, mass advertisements and swear words, and test and delete friends in time. Their existence will not bring you value, but will only bring you psychological loss.
Quit Tik Tok, cars are faster and headlines. You know, behind the screen, there is a professional team of hundreds of people studying how to make you more addicted. Your self-control is nothing in front of modern industry.
10 Pay as little attention to or take off entertainment news as possible. Most things have nothing to do with you and consume your inner energy.
Don't express your opinions at will. You think your opinion is very important, but in fact you are just one of the reading numbers 1.
1 1 For social relationships that need to be maintained on your knees, social relationships that will make you very painful and ineffective, please give up decisively.
Making friends is for happiness and progress, not for pain.
12 You can try mindfulness meditation and try to pay attention to your real physical and psychological state. Many people may never pay attention to themselves except when they are sick.
13 physical fitness is really the capital of revolution. It is best to exercise more than three times a week and choose your favorite exercise.
14 stay away from foods that make you uncomfortable, quit high oil, high salt and high sugar, and have midnight snack.
15 We should do something while we are away. The event that the sky falls will not be greater than life and death. In addition, don't let anything affect our life, work and sleep.
If you have insomnia for a month in a row, it is recommended to see a psychologist. You may be depressed.
16 Everyone should have some good clothes in his wardrobe. The price can be not too expensive and the brand can be not very good, but the fabric of the clothes must be good and the style should be as classic as possible. Such clothes may not be out of date for many years.
Especially for boys, the fabric of clothes is really important. Please throw away clothes that wrinkle and pilling easily as soon as possible.
Learn to be alone. At a certain age, you will find that maintaining a huge and complicated social relationship is not worth the candle.
18 Please pay close attention to sleep quality. One third of a person's life is spent in bed, but most people don't pay enough attention to it.
19 Find what you must do well and refuse other things.
Don't be afraid of losing face. You need to get used to rejecting others, and others need to get used to being rejected by you. Just practicing.
Spend time with your family and good friends. When you reach a certain age, you will find that it is your family that can really accompany you all your life. As long as they are healthy and happy, nothing else matters.