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What are the wedding and funeral customs in Suqian, Jiangsu? urgent ...
The day before the wedding, the bride and groom are not allowed to meet. On the wedding day, the groom's family will drive to the bride's house in the morning and set off firecrackers in the village. In some places, in front of the bride's house, married people will eat snacks or wine from the bride's house! Go home for lunch in the New Year and go back to the groom's house at 3-4 pm. The bride's brother will send the wedding car across the bridge before letting it go.

When the bride arrives at the groom's house, she can't take the initiative to get off. She needs someone like the groom's aunt or sister to help her get off the bus, or pay the fare (lucky numbers such as 8880-9990), and then she knocks at the door, which is what the above one said. Set off firecrackers before going to bed at night.

Funeral is usually buried within three days after the death of the deceased. The body was placed in the hall of the eldest son's house the day before, and paper was burned and lights were lit next to it. There will be a vigil at night, and all relatives will be cremated when they come back the next day. Cremation means that the grandson carries a lamp and wears a white hat (the son of the deceased wears a white belt and the grandson wears a red hat). When he comes back, he will be cremated and put in a shed set up outside for others to sacrifice! If the daughter or niece or granddaughter of the deceased gets married, there will be a pig's head sacrifice, and the family of the deceased will carry the square table to welcome him back and blow the horn! In the evening, all relatives and friends will have a dinner party to have fun for burial, and the son will fall into the old man's basin (that is, the eldest son of the deceased will fall, which means that the property of the person who falls to death belongs to him, and women cannot fall). At the time of burial, the grandson of the deceased will eat jiaozi about 0/00 meters away from the cemetery (condiments can't be put in jiaozi, so it is said that he can be admitted to a famous university after eating it, hehe, I think it's superstition). After the burial, I went back to watch the trumpet (that is, the singers and performers invited by my family). Singing will be over at one or two in the evening!

This is the basic process.

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When you get married, you have to turn the door (usually cousins, classmates, friends, not elders), that is, use a big table (square table) to block up the principal room, so as not to let the bride in, like cigarettes and candy, and some want red envelopes, and then go in after giving them, and then make trouble in the bridal chamber. There are scattered flowers songs, that is, sprinkle rich and silver halls, sprinkle something else, and then poke the window.

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