202 1, the wave of divorce in the entertainment circle really surprised the people who ate melons. First Tong Liya and Chen Encheng divorced, then Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun, then Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei. The reason for divorce is that men have cheated on each other many times in marriage, which violates the principle of marital loyalty, and women can't bear to choose divorce. From their divorce, I can't help but say that if you want to really understand a man, marry him, because marriage is a mirror of a man, and what kind of man will always show his fox's tail after marriage. Marriage is also a training ground for women. As for where a woman chooses to go, it depends on the degree of practice!

? As the saying goes, once you cheat, there are countless times. Whether a woman cheats on a man is forgiveness or redemption, there are thousands of people. Marriage is a man's mirror and a woman's training ground. We have also witnessed many marriages.

? 1. Some women are humble and timid in marriage. In the face of men's betrayal, they choose to tolerate compromise and live a happy life in the eyes of outsiders.

Xiao S, the host of an entertainment program "Kangxi Comes" in Taiwan Province, grew up in a single-parent family. Her mother raised three daughters alone, and her life was extremely difficult. Xiao S and his sister Da S have to go out to help their mothers support their families since childhood. She knows that single-parent families are not easy. By chance, she met Xu Yajun, a wealthy financial upstart who graduated from Colombian architecture department. She fell in love with him at first sight and thought he was the one she wanted to marry. She did not hesitate to bear the stigma of a third party, successfully chased Xu Yajun and married him. After marriage, in order to give birth to a son for her husband and satisfy his family's desire to carry on the family line, she gave birth to three daughters in succession. Instead of winning her husband's painful love, she was repeatedly abused by her husband. When her husband, Xu Yajun, was exposed to cheating in nightclubs for many times, she chose to forbear, actively avoided rumors to protect her weakness, and even went out to clarify various rumors in front of the media to save her marriage. The bakery opened by her husband Xu Yajun was exposed by the media, which was inconsistent with the facts. After being suspected of cheating consumers, she also apologized to the public as a spokesperson, which made people feel that she was humble and careful in this marriage.

? The seemingly fearless and cheerful little S has always been humble and tortuous in marriage, and we can all feel her difficulty through the screen. That kind of crying and collapse behind her back may be the truest of her in marriage. Everyone thinks that for love rat like Xu Yajun, she can give up her marriage, but she doesn't want her three daughters to be single parents like her, and continue to cultivate themselves in marriage for the sake of family integrity.

? In the twists and turns of marriage, Xiao S, as always, humorously hosted the program and educated her daughter. Some time ago, Xiao S's eldest daughter successfully made a fashion blockbuster, which was well received by the outside world. Perhaps this is also the reward for Xiao S's persistence in marriage. In her opinion, the healthy growth of her daughter and the integrity of her family are more important than anything else.

? Supermodel Jiang Lisha was born in a sports family. 65,438+08 years old, won the title of "national first-class athlete". Later, she won the third place in the New Silk Road Model Contest, and got a good opportunity to go to Beijing and Italy to study clothes. Her ideal is to set up her own clothing company and create her own brand.

If you don't know Chen Musheng, she may be an excellent fashion designer. At the age of 26, Chen Musheng, who is 16 years older than her, was moved by Chen Musheng's "I support you". Give up the ideal after marriage and give birth to four children by caesarean section in five years, which makes people sigh! What kind of woman is so cruel, regardless of repeated physical injuries, giving birth to children one after another! Is it love? Or is it like a moth who loves lowliness and is desperate in this marriage?

20 1 1, Chen Musheng, who just got married with Jiang Lisha, met everyone for a drink. During the dinner, she repeatedly violated 19-year-old actress Chen Jiahuan Jiayun, whose behavior was extremely bad. Afterwards, Chen Musheng admitted that he had made a mistake and publicly apologized for it.

? Facing her husband's mistakes and public confession, Jiang Lisha tearfully asked the media to give her husband a chance to turn over a new leaf and forgive him.

? Women enter marriage because there are many things that children can't control, and it is also necessary to choose forbearance. But forbearance requires strong inner support and a better self. So she actively keeps fit and runs her own marriage. Some time ago, it was also a good choice to expose live broadcasts with her husband to earn money to support their families. Now, Xiu Xiu's girlfriends will take photos online and family photos from time to time. The younger they are, the more they are suspected of plastic surgery, but it doesn't affect anything. Jiang Lisha's marriage is not all laughter, but a family of six looks enviably happy.

There are many women like Xiao S and such in life. Once married, many of them can't control themselves. Traditional ideas and children's many considerations make most women choose to endure and persist in the face of the unhappiness of wedding smoke. But patience and persistence need courage and wisdom, and they need constant improvement and strength. Only in this way can forbearance be regarded as a kind of wisdom.

2. Some women are bold and brave. When their marriage is unhappy, they choose to give up, pursue self-growth and usher in a truly enviable life.

? Big S and small S have the same living environment since childhood, but their personalities are completely different. Big s seems to be gentle in appearance and strong in heart. Small s seems careless, but in fact it is timid and conservative. As we all know, Big S and Wang Xiaofei met at a friend's party. Wang Xiaofei is one of Shao, and has an affair with many stars. He is a famous playboy, but after knowing Da S, they got married soon, which made public outcry. Big S, who loves beauty after marriage, gave up her weight and gave birth to a son and a daughter for her husband. Even when she was in a coma for a few days, she almost lost her life. She made no reservations in this marriage and sacrificed a lot. Wang Xiaofei changed his old habits and became a good man at home, giving the baby sunshine from time to time. Big S also showed love to her husband on many occasions, and their marriage seemed happy and loving.

But who would have thought that Big S announced his marriage on 221,1654381October, because Big S said: Rome was not built in a day. It turns out that her marriage has already had problems! Later, the media revealed that Wang Xiaofei was dating someone else during her marriage. Facing her husband Wang Xiaofei's infidelity, Big S resolutely chose to divorce her children. Since it is not the marriage she wants, since she can't feel the happiness of marriage, it is better to let go of her own affairs. She said in the media:

After the divorce, she had a happy party with her friends and actively participated in the recording of the program to find herself again. Although the broadcast of the program is not optimistic, I believe that she will live a wonderful life of her own in the near future.

Bezos, the founder of Amazon, married the talented Mackenzie at the age of 28. After marriage, Mackenzie studied the company's financial management and various businesses, helping Bezos become the richest man in the world. They used to be a model couple envied by outsiders, but Bezos cheated on a woman named Sanchez. In the face of her husband's infidelity, Mackenzie chose to marry them for more than 20 years, still insisting on herself and living her wonderful life. After divorcing Bezos, she took care of the children and wrote novels. She published two novels and won the American Book Award.

? In 20 19, she signed the "giving pledge" initiated by Buffett and Gates in 20 10, indicating that she would donate half of her property (18.5 billion US dollars) to charity. She became the biggest philanthropist after Bill Gates. For Mackenzie, when you love me, I can do my best to accompany you from scratch for you. ? You don't love me anymore. I can leave at any time, not because of your departure. ? I will always be me, and I will shine! ?

? The beautiful appearance of Zhao Min played by Alyssa Chia, a beautiful woman in costume, in Eight Dragons is breathtaking. It is such a fairy-like woman in everyone's eyes. Sun Zhihao has not been cherished since she married her. She was repeatedly exposed that her ex-husband was cheating on another woman. Alyssa Chia was hurt in the marriage, but she wanted a divorce, but was told that she could not get custody of her daughter. In order to get custody of her daughter, Alyssa Chia accused her ex-husband in front of the media and exposed her bad behavior. Her haggard face won everyone's sympathy.

? A woman's face in marriage is a testimony to her marital status. You can tell from her face whether her marriage is happy or not. After Alyssa Chia's divorce, with her efforts, she got the custody of her daughter through many twists and turns. At the same time, she understood that relying on others is better than relying on herself, adjusted her state, worked hard, and found her former beauty and self-confidence. Later, she met Xiu Jie, a few years younger than herself, and got married and gave birth to a daughter. She was spoiled as a princess and gained love and happiness. Some people say that her best time is not when she plays Zhao Min, but when she marries Jie Kaixiu. Indeed, a happy life depends on oneself, not on marriage. When marriage cannot bring us happiness, quitting may be the best choice.

Because of love, there is marriage. Marriage is like a woman's second reincarnation. It takes good luck to marry a good man. Once most women get married and start a family, they rush to live a good life, while men's fickle and unstable feelings often lead to derailment.

? In fact, the truth of marriage is cruel. When the trivial life of daily necessities buries the beauty of love and exposes people's true colors to each other's eyes, a chicken feather marriage needs both sides to manage well. If a man has no sense of responsibility for marriage and lacks the basic principle of loyalty, then a woman in marriage needs a strong heart to cultivate herself, or endure or escape, which requires courage and a strong heart beyond ordinary people. Marriage is a mirror for men and a training ground for women's lives.