Xiong Haizi has always made a lot of news: the high-speed train is crying, the elevator is pressed randomly, and people go to relatives' homes to rummage around ... Xiong Haizi is a headache, but it also makes people feel: Do parents really have no tricks to deal with Xiong Haizi?
If you love your child, you must educate him well!
Some people say that to destroy a bear Haizi is to constantly encourage his various bear behaviors. Then as parents, we shouldn't cheat our babies. If you love your child, you should educate him well instead of indulging and accommodating him blindly.
Behind every bear Haizi, there is a bear parent. There is an old saying in China called "fish begins to stink at the head". Xiong Haizi is Xiong Haizi because his parents are inseparable. Often parents themselves are "bears".
Xiong Haizi is hateful and always "evil", which makes people restless. But can you do it? In fact, the child is reluctant, but there is a bear parent behind him.
Parents are the best teachers for children. Only when parents set an example can children learn well. On the contrary, parents are full of bears, so don't blame their children for not studying well.
Many parents spoil their children very much. They always give their children everything they want, as long as they don't cry, they can play. As a result, the child went outside, thinking that he could act recklessly like at home and kick the back of the chair at will by plane and car; Talking loudly in the library; Grab other people's toys; Even began to provoke others ... such boundless freedom, unrestrained love, seemingly loving children, actually hurt children. Therefore, we should teach children boundaries and rules, and don't run amok.
Teaching children to understand the rules as early as possible can not only help them understand the rules at home automatically, but also help parents to establish a correct view of things and avoid many mistakes.
Although corporal punishment is not advocated now, proper beating and scolding is still good for children. For example, if a child makes a principled mistake and refuses to correct it after repeated instructions, then parents should take some "hard measures" to make the child aware of his mistake and know that he will be punished if he makes a mistake. This effect will be better than direct preaching.
The above points, I hope my parents Mark will live and be encouraged by * * *!