Parents' reading experience 1 Chapter 19 of The Doctrine of the Mean says, "Be knowledgeable, interrogate, think carefully, distinguish clearly and be practical." "erudite, thoughtful, discerning and practical" comes from the philosophical thought in Confucian culture. Many universities take this as their motto. It feels good to bring it to family education. In the vernacular, it means "study extensively, consult him in detail, think carefully, distinguish right from wrong, and implement it in a down-to-earth manner." For children aged four or five, there are many channels for education, such as outdoor outing to broaden their horizons, family parent-child interaction to teach children truth, and books, the simplest and simplest tool, can make us "knowledgeable, prudent, discerning and persevering" through reading.
From my child's first birthday, I showed him the simplest picture book, read him story books such as Baby Pictorial at the age of one and a half, and went to kindergarten to study at the age of two. Every night before going to bed, the child is very active and sometimes asks his father or mother to read him stories. Up to now, although children know a few words, they still boldly point to books and read them to adults. Although many times Zhang Guan Li Dai made a mistake, sometimes adults found what they wanted to read before finishing their homework at night. Turning over the book, telling the story I understand incoherently, I feel that the child is making continuous progress. Although he doesn't know many words like some children and can read independently, I think the habit of reading and the mentality of wanting to learn are more important than anything else!
Kindergartens can borrow books from last June 165438+ 10, which is really good news for our parents. First, they can let their children read more books, with a wide range of books. Unlike before, parents may have their own mindset and buy a certain kind of books, and children's concept of reading is also restricted; Second, it has greatly reduced the cost of buying books in our family! The third is that "books cannot be read unless they are borrowed". The children are holding borrowed books. First, they know that they cherish books, and immediately have the concept that kindergarten books cannot be lost, folded or stained; Second, the desire to finish reading the book quickly is even stronger. I don't feel like I can finish it soon. I will return the book on Monday. It's a pity that the book has not been finished. Third, I prefer reading. My children have repeatedly reminded adults to pick them up in kindergarten early on Tuesday, otherwise they won't be able to borrow the books they want to read!
Why study? You can know words, let children calm down and do one thing, increase their self-cultivation, let children understand the truth of doing things and being a man, and have many benefits, so that everyone can choose books as a tool for children's education, but when you use them, you want all the benefits to be immediate, but the results are greatly reduced. Reading itself is a slow job. If children are genuinely fond of reading, then take the initiative to choose their favorite books. Take the initiative to ponder the story in the book, take the initiative to ask some reasons, really understand the truth in the book, and naturally practice it in an unnatural life. "Be knowledgeable and thoughtful, distinguish clearly and believe deeply", and the benefits will naturally be realized! Our husband advocates "hunger therapy", that is, there is no need to force children to "study now" and "how many books and pages must be read today", so that children feel that reading is completing their own tasks, satisfying their parents and reading for others! Our family is used to reading with our children one hour before going to bed at night. Before that, we urged him to finish tidying up toys and washing, such as "Hurry up, or we won't have time to study together tonight", "You made a mistake today, so I won't study with you" and "Do some chores (such as folding clothes and cleaning the table) so that you can read more books today" and so on. Children think reading is for him.
From the initial reading of picture books, let children realize the colorful things in this world, to the stories in baby picture books, let children know how to talk about hygiene and civilization, and now know how to be polite and share the burden of parents. I feel that books are really amazing things. They are our parents' "worry divider" and the "catalyst" for the healthy growth of children's mentality. Bing Xin said, "Read more, read more, read more". Reading has so many benefits, why don't we all do it!
Children's parents' reading experience 2 Since the baby was born, it has brought a lot of happiness to our life. At this time, the baby has entered the kindergarten middle class, which has made great progress compared with the past. It has the necessary potential of self-care, self-thought, emotion and hobby, and often asks "why?" As he grows up, his parents expect to give him a happy life, but they expect him to live a happy and healthy life.
I remember when the baby was young, eating was the biggest headache in our family. We have to eat three meals a day for a long time, or we refuse to open our mouths, or we have to wait a long time to swallow a mouthful of rice into our mouths. Sometimes, in order to get him to talk quickly, grandparents have to do their best to perform in front of the baby, and the whole family is around him. It's funny to think of it now, but I believe many parents may have had this experience. But since the baby entered the kindergarten, we found that the baby began to develop good eating habits, not only not picky about food, but also did not need adults to feed. Every time we eat, he always says that the farmer's uncle works hard to grow food, and the teacher tells us not to waste it. Only by eating more food can we defeat a monster like Altman. Until now, the baby is the first in every meal in the kindergarten class, and can eat the food cleanly, which has been praised by the teacher and envied by other parents. For this reason, I deeply feel that kindergarten education is really crucial to the growth and influence of children. Since kindergarten, the baby's self-care potential is getting stronger and stronger. Not only did he learn to dress himself and pack his toys, but he also took the initiative to help us adults with housework, so at home we often praised the baby for growing up and really becoming more and more sensible.
The baby has been active since he was a child. I remember when I was in kindergarten, the teacher often said that my child couldn't sit still in class and couldn't concentrate. In order to correct the child's active character, the family bought a lot of puzzles and building blocks, and the baby is also very interested, and often can assemble them seriously and attentively. Slowly, the baby can concentrate for a long time, learn to control objects, and then control his own movements. So I think our parents can choose some toys purposefully according to their children's personality characteristics, which will have a deliberate effect on the healthy development of their children's personality.
At present, my baby likes painting and goes to the Children's Palace for painting classes every Sunday, but when I first started to learn painting, I also had resistance before. I remember painting in kindergarten once. The teacher said that he stood by with a brush and refused to draw. Finally, all the other children finished writing, but he was still a blank sheet of paper, and finally he cried sadly. Later I asked him why he didn't draw. The baby replied, "I can't draw, and I can't draw well, so I don't want to draw." He cried as he talked, and he was very sad. So I patiently said, "The baby can draw whatever he wants. We are doodling. It doesn't matter. Mom believes that our baby Yu Can can definitely do it. " So he began to draw lessons from it and slowly drew a fox in an appropriate way. At present, although the baby's painting is not very good, it has also made progress. I think if he can give full play to his imagination and cultivate some hobbies through painting, it will definitely help his development. Therefore, it is necessary to give more encouragement to children at ordinary times, so that children can learn self-confidence from an early age and improve their study and life intentions.
At present, many parents are very concerned about their children's education. "You can't let your children lose at the same starting line." For this reason, many parents began to learn to educate their children from an early age. During my baby's summer vacation from a small class to a middle class, I signed up for painting, English and hosting three courses at once, and the schedule was full on Saturday and Sunday. I remember when I was in the first class, the baby was crying, but refused to step into the classroom door. Later, my husband told me that children can't be taught like students when they are playing and studying. They should use games to let them learn knowledge, learn truth and cultivate their hobbies. Indeed, children are innocent and have a world view of themselves. We can't force adults to learn this and that with their utilitarian thoughts, which will limit their independent personality and imagination potential. We should develop their potential according to their interests. At ordinary times, we should pay more attention to cultivating children's interest in things and good study habits, so that he can really live happily.
Children's parents' reading experience 3 The key to cultivating children's reading habits. The ancients said, "It is better to leave a child with a thousand dollars at a time." Developing children's reading habits will be the best gift for parents to give their children all their lives. Reading with children can help us form the same growing memory as children. In the past, before the child went to bed at night, I read her bedtime stories to make her fall asleep sweetly. On weekends, I will take her out to play, explain to her the animals, plants and crops I saw in books, let her experience the wonders of nature, explore the novelty and unpredictability of science, and let children feel the pleasure of reading. Looking at the excited little face of the child, I also feel a warm current in my heart, which is probably the fun of reading with the child!
My experience is: read with children, feel the wonderful stories and beautiful words in the book, recall the heavy precipitation of history, experience the wonder of nature, explore the novelty and unpredictability of science, and let children feel the pleasure of reading. So when children are in kindergarten, we choose some books that are easy to understand and accept, such as the ugly duckling in Andersen's fairy tales. So in this way, we started the process of reading with our children.
The ugly duckling described by Andersen was pushed out, laughed at and attacked everywhere. But it didn't despair, but struggled relentlessly. Finally, it became a beautiful swan. After reading with my children for a long time, I found that this not only increased her interest in reading, but also helped her answer questions in time when she didn't understand, so that she could understand the truth in the book for the first time. Besides, reading with her has enhanced our mutual understanding and affection. It seems that on the road of children's growth, life will be more interesting, emotions will be more noble and life will be more exciting!
We should go through the reading with our children. No matter how busy we are at work, we should take time out to study with our children. In an atmosphere full of affection, we can indulge in the world of books with our children and enjoy the happiness brought by reading! Let children grow up healthily and happily in a family environment full of positive, willing to learn and accompanied by books.
Parents' reading experience iv. I like reading, so does my son. But what kind of books to choose for children is beneficial to their development and physical and mental health has always been my confusion. With the development of modern material civilization, the lure of TV and Internet to children, and the drive of economic benefits, children's books are very interested and like reading, but I think many things are unfavorable or even harmful to children's physical and mental development. Children don't like books that are really instructive to children.
It is of great significance for schools to carry out parent-child reading activities in the new education, so that parents can pay more attention to their children's extracurricular reading and mobilize the enthusiasm of children and parents to read good books. In order to make the children's winter vacation more enjoyable and full, the school held a special parent-child meeting to emphasize the significance and importance of parent-child reading, provide reading suggestions and recommend reading lists of relevant grades, so that our parents can have a clear purpose.
So, my children and I went to the bookstore to choose books, usually according to the books recommended by the school, and then the children tried to choose books themselves, which also greatly mobilized the enthusiasm of the children. My son chose some books he liked, such as Sanmao's wandering story, the adventures of a man with a straight mouth, the poems of a thousand families, and the wonderful kingdom of numbers. When my son bought his favorite book, he could not put it down.
Reading with children is not only to share happiness, but also to share confusion. Where children don't understand, I will talk about my understanding, or check the information with my children. Both parents and children increase their knowledge and train their thinking ability in reading. Nowadays, our parent-child reading is gradually changing from passive reading to active reading. Parent-child reading is becoming a good habit in our family. In the future, we will continue to improve ways and means to further stimulate children's habits of reading and thinking, so that children can be friends with books and grow up healthily and happily in reading.
Parent-child reading, we like it!
Parents' reading experience 5 I read the book "Don't lose in family education" today. For the first time as parents, we learned a lot of truths and skills that parents should know and should know, especially an article entitled "Mom and Dad, please let me play", which made me learn to reflect on what we should do, what we can do and what different results we will have in the future. Playing is a child's nature. On the one hand, today's parents keep using "learning piano", "learning painting", "learning dance" and "learning literacy" to bind their children's hands and feet. Many rules and regulations, this "no" and that "no", never ask children's personal feelings and actual needs. On the other hand, parents are confused and at a loss about how to educate their only child, complaining that their children are lonely without the company of their peers, playing too little and so on. Invisible, these subjective and objective factors constitute a "wall" that hinders children from playing, and parents gradually lose patience to listen to their children and accompany them.
As we all know, just like the conclusion in the book: "Mom and Dad, don't think that learning is the best education. What suits our education best is not only books, but also things around us. In our childhood, play is also the best education, because play is also learning, working and living. " Parents are children's eternal teachers and must keep learning. In the process of parenting, children's growth will continue to bring you new experiences. Parents influence their children, and children also influence their parents. This is not a simple interactive process. During the nine years of parenting, I had some rough experiences.
First, start with small things and cultivate good habits.
Some people say, "Excellence is a habit." Because if you have good study habits, it will be easier to learn and the learning effect will be good, so I ask my children to play after finishing their homework, do it carefully when writing homework, and be happy when playing; Having a good living habit will benefit you for life. If you think it's good, others like it. Therefore, I have trained my children to learn to do what they can from an early age, and at the same time pay attention to cultivating their interpersonal skills and hygiene habits.
Second, first of all, teach children to learn to love and learn to be human.
A famous Japanese thinker once said: "Education is a way to teach people independence and self-esteem, and it is exploration and practice." Explain that to be a person in advance, personality charm is better than any position and money. Therefore, the first thing to pay attention to is the cultivation of children's character. To be a man with a big atmosphere, don't care too much about interests, but care about people, be good at being lenient with others and be a man with rich emotional intelligence. Don't be proud of your achievements, don't be discouraged when you encounter difficulties, and establish a personality of being kind to others, winning with sincerity and being optimistic.
Third, provide opportunities for exercise and enhance self-confidence.
Don't always think that the child is still young, too many things can't be done well, or don't trust him to do it. When encountering difficulties, children can be prompted to use their brains or encouraged to practice. Through exercise, children can gain self-confidence and enhance their willpower to overcome difficulties. Sometimes it is necessary to set up some small obstacles for children to solve by themselves and cultivate their ability to do things independently and deal with problems. The cultivation of ability is of great help to children in the future. I will always remember my son crossing the street for the first time, which was last semester, although he is over 8 years old. I will never forget his trembling and cautious appearance when crossing the road. My heart pounded when I saw the car driving to him from the balcony on the sixth floor. My son proudly said, "Mom, I'm back. I can cross the road by myself!" " "My eyes are full of self-confidence. Of course, I can't forget that I hugged him excitedly and said," Son, you are great! "You have really grown up, thank you." Because that time, my son taught me to let go, so that I could fly higher.
Fourth, set an example and seize the opportunity.
In the process of children's growth, many words and deeds are actually imitated by parents, so parents should pay attention to their words and deeds in front of their children. Always encourage and help children, affirm progress, give guidance when encountering setbacks, help them analyze the truth and find out the problems, thus exercising their psychological endurance and psychological balance, as well as their strong will and character in the face of difficulties. When educating children, we should also look at the time and occasion, seize the opportunity, and don't hurt children's self-esteem. Mom and dad, please let the children play, please accompany them to play and grow up, please help them learn to study, learn to work better, and enjoy life while playing!
Children's parents' reading experience 6 Many people say that parents are children's first teachers. But our first teacher was incompetent for many reasons. It is really a pity to think that our parents have no leisure to take care of our study and growth because of their busy lives. In order not to regret in the future, we try to spare some time to study with our children. I have had many feelings and experiences for some time. The following is a little experience I have summarized and written. I hope you are free:
First, do whatever you want.
I think, from small to large, children probably have one thing in common. That is to love reading picture books and comics; Or listen to short stories and children's songs. My baby is no exception. There are many books at home. Every time he goes out, I usually buy him a book he likes to read. Because he chose it himself, he never needs you to call at home or supervise him. Although he couldn't understand the text, he still read it with relish.
Second, according to hobbies, books in life are combined with each other.
Even before I could walk and talk, I found that children had a special interest in cars, and they were particularly excited to see cars in books or newspapers. Now I am in kindergarten, and there are really many books about vehicles at home. Usually when he sees a car on the street or on the highway, his father will tell him which car it is one by one and how to distinguish the signs on it, so that I often feel ashamed to go out with me and test my mother who knows nothing about cars. He is complacent and confident.
Third, parent-child reading and timely explanation are also used for timely education.
My children, like other children, love stories, especially before going to bed. No two or three stories can keep him awake. He and I often read a story book and occasionally teach him some new words. Because every story must have its meaning. For example, "Piggy is Clean" teaches children to love cleanliness and hygiene from an early age. Chickens and ducks teach children that peers should help and care for each other. Every time I finish, I tell him who he should learn from in the story. Similar things happen sometimes in life. If he refuses to take a bath, I will move the story of "the pig is clean", and the effect is often good.
Generally speaking, there are many ways to educate children, but it also requires our parents to spend some time and energy. Because of their limited culture, they may not be as good as most quality parents in educating their children. I hope I can increase my knowledge in this field through communication. Please make up for this deficiency.