Once upon a time, there was a mother who grew up in a difficult family and asked him to finish all her unfinished work. The mother said to her son, son, I hope you will be a white-collar worker when you grow up, so that mom and dad can enjoy this happiness.
Later, the boy abandoned all his likes and dreams, endured the pain and only wanted to become a white-collar worker; Later, he became a waste collector.
This is a story that ends in tragedy. It is not that I am entangled in my heart and feel sorry for the beautiful writing. I can only say that her mother never knew that the boy's initial dream was to become the boss of the company. If the boy sticks to his dream, maybe he really has a chance? Giving up like and choosing hate, such a dream will not come true, such a wish will not come true, such a thing is a psychological distortion.
No one or thing can be made up, only the past, you can't force children from your own point of view.
So the purpose of writing this article is to tell you, don't abandon your love, and don't force others to abandon love.
I remember watching a short film the other day, and the protagonist wanted to sue the school. I don't know if you've seen it, but there's a line from the protagonist that I particularly like:
A teacher faces 20 students. Each student has different opinions, different thoughts, different dreams and different physical conditions, but the teacher should educate each student in the same way.
I want to say, isn't this passage also expressing my topic? Then I said:
Boys have 1. He likes basketball, so her parents teach him football according to their own wishes. After a while, the boy hated basketball completely, but then his parents remembered that he liked basketball and wanted to teach him basketball.
It's like a fish swimming in the water. You must drag it ashore. You want to go ashore, yes, indeed, but it's dead! Do you pretend to be merciful and put the fish back into the sea? Instead of apologizing, at least go to the grave?
I think this is every parent's illness, not abuse. I just want to make it clear that every parent has to work hard day after day to force their children, and in the end, they both lose. This kind of family doesn't quarrel every day. Tell me what else I can do. Is this what parents want? Ok, I'll give it to you, but you can take it away!
So, why not trust children who have grown up in front of their dreams? Each of them is energetic and thoughtful. You laid a solid foundation for them in their dream world. How many days can't they do it?
Give yourself a goal. Tell me.
Give yourself a goal. Tell me.
First, if you want to be a delicate woman, then set yourself a small goal, such as: first change the shampoo into nine cocoons.
Second, in the last 90 days of 20xx, first set yourself a small target weight of 2 digits.
Third, so no matter what industry, reading is really too important. Compared with fine clothes, speaking and writing are really high judgment. I think we should set ourselves a small goal that is easy to achieve, such as not indulging in men's sex but trying to get a Nobel Prize in Literature or something.
Fourth, (enjoyment and burden) because of people, so do things; Ambition is not strong, so it is quantitative. Different people have different hearts, whether it is enjoyment or burden. We are doing repetitive work and study every day, but sometimes we are delayed by such things. Be sure to set a goal for yourself in your mind and do something every day, which is a kind of supervision for yourself, but please don't take TA as a burden, but treat it with a happy attitude!
5. Set yourself a small goal, 2 1 lose 20-30 kg before your birthday. Come on!
Sixth, set yourself a goal: study diet control! Execution and control.
7. Sometimes I can't help feeling that after 20 years, I have gained nothing, I have done nothing I should and shouldn't do, and I haven't gone anywhere I want to go. Starting today, I want to change and set myself a goal. I must travel to Tibet, Inner Mongolia and Yunnan next year. Wait for me!
Eight, first set yourself a small goal of driving test next year.
I think it's time to set a goal for myself. Muddling along is always not the way.
Ten, first set a small goal for yourself and clean the room.
Set a small goal for yourself first, and go to the library to read a book every Sunday.
Twelve, the old lady who went to Dengyuzhu a few days ago ran north horse, and I took half horse as the finish line, which was a little too low. Set yourself a small goal first: try to run the horse completely next year. I ran the farthest distance today. I slept for several hours in the afternoon. Physical strength is the most critical, time is long, and boring repetition is also very torturous.
Thirteen, first set a small goal for yourself, for example, I will hoop its teeth first.
14. Seeing that the National Day holiday is coming, it's time to spend all kinds of money. First, set yourself a goal. The goal is not too big. Earn it 20 thousand before the end of this month
Fifteen, I haven't posted Weibo for a long time. I feel really uncomfortable today, that is, physically, and then I am very confused. To tell the truth, I want to die. It's not negative energy, it's just too painful. I'm going to sleep. I suspect it is the sequela of staying up late for a long time before. Set yourself a small goal before going to bed. I hope I can be a principal this semester. I hope I can get 4 points this school year. Seriously.
Sixteen, it is said that we should set a small goal for ourselves. Should we also set a small goal, such as making a 20% profit first and outperforming all wealth management products?
Seventeen, when you wake up in the morning, set yourself a goal: Today must be better than yesterday! Stick to it every day and you will certainly gain a lot!
Eighteen, you can set yourself a small goal first, for example, take four or five years to take root in my favorite city with the person I like.
Nineteen, sophomore, first set yourself a small goal, pass CET-4 and CET-6, pass computer level 2, and it will be good to get a scholarship next year. Dream first!
Congratulations to Yifeng Li for winning the Hundred Flowers Award for Best Supporting Actor! I am closer to my goal on the road of struggle. I am really happy for you, a fan girl! Captain Chen in the sparrow is really witty and handsome, and your acting skills have really improved. I also want to work hard with Aidou to make myself better. For example, set yourself a small goal.
Twenty-one, first set yourself a small goal: get an anorexia.
Twenty-two, I just called a friend and suddenly talked about buying a house. Even if I bought an account, if I bought a house of1300,000 square meters in Zhengzhou, I would have to1300,000. The down payment of 300,000 yuan/kloc-0,000,000 yuan is 30 years, which is equivalent to more than 30,000 yuan a year and more than 3,000 yuan a month, which is not too much. I didn't dare to imagine it was my fault. I feel 1 10,000 is much better. Now the calculation is like this, first set a small goal for yourself, and earn 100 million first.
Twenty-three, now think about it. Since graduation, I seem to have lost my fighting spirit at school. Maybe I should set another goal for myself, and then sink down and cheer! Learn to grow up in loneliness and still turn around.
Twenty-four, first set a small goal for yourself, such as losing ten pounds, maintaining next semester's grades, improving physical fitness and getting high marks in English.
25. Set a goal for yourself on the first night of your stay, and only stay for half a year.
Twenty-six, first set a small goal for yourself. I want it to be 100 million.
27. Life is always stagnant. Should I set myself a small goal?
28. Set yourself a goal. No matter how you go to a place every year, you always travel at public expense, but you don't cherish it. From now on, when you go to a place every year, you will feel different cities, different temperament, different customs and different cultures.
Twenty-nine, life needs more waves, I am too used to peace, and I feel that I will gradually lose my dreams. You should have a contented heart, a struggling heart, be brave and self-reliant, stick to your passion and set yourself a small goal. Life needs to be changed and improved.
Thirty, you can't always do this, always spend every day in regret and fantasy, and you can't regret and regret every time it happens. You can't always stay in your ivory tower. I hope you can make a little progress every day, don't think so much! Set yourself a small goal and live a full life.
Thirty-one, no 1 100 million, pretending to live the life of a billionaire, that's just vanity; If you have to live a billionaire's life by force, you're dead. So set yourself a small goal first.
From reading a preface to two or three hundred pages, set yourself a small goal: study hard.
Set yourself a small goal and start at this time tomorrow.
Thirty-four, should we also set ourselves a goal, such as watching a concert in Jay Chou ~
Thirty-five, set a goal for yourself first, and do a good exam at the end of 0+ 165438! Then you can give yourself an unfulfilled birthday present, and now you must work hard or study.
Set a goal for yourself: read a certain number of textbooks every day and then watch the video of beating dad! Otherwise it's really too late.
At the age of 37, I returned to Hu Hansan. Set yourself a small goal first or stick to the word.
Talk about the mood of setting a goal for yourself.
Set yourself a small goal first, such as saving 65,438+10,000 yuan before the Chinese New Year. It is always good to have an ideal, in case it comes true!
Second, set a small goal for yourself in the new day, for example, I will lose 60 pounds first!
Third, set yourself a goal, for example, I will come to a windmill first in three months!
Fourth, set yourself a small goal, such as buying a train ticket and leaving!
Fifth, set yourself a big goal: save money! ! ! ! ! I must win a BMW for myself! ! ! !
Six, I also set myself a goal, that is, to cure the villain. I don't care about you at all. My name is not Du. This fox's tail leaks too early!
Seven, set a small goal for yourself and go home to open a barbecue shop two years later!
Eight, I also set myself a small goal: sell (buy) a car every month!
Nine, first set yourself a small goal, such as passing the fourth grade, such as passing the teacher qualification certificate, such as 90 kg? Good night, my ideal.
Ten, first set yourself a small goal, such as I earn 1 10,000 first.
Eleven, I went to Xianlin to attend the opening ceremony, which benefited a lot. I set myself a small goal in the new semester. Teachers nowadays are so cute and handsome. Although I can't see them clearly, I can't hide my master demeanor. Then come to the high-definition picture of Baidu Zhang Yibin male god, true male god ~
Twelve, go to school, the new semester is about to begin. Set yourself a small goal, such as getting a scholarship first ~
Thirteen, first set yourself a small goal, such as buying this car before I get married.
Fourteen, we should set a small goal for ourselves, such as earning 100 million yuan first!
/kloc-Come on 0/5 and September. I envy the achievements of my peers, but I never care about my own gains and losses. No! No! Make yourself better, so that you can live up to your assets and not daydream. Do what you want to pursue! Set yourself a small goal, and then work hard. If you have faith, you will realize it. Come on! Never cry or regret again.
Sixteen, the first week of school, first set yourself a small goal, such as: I hope to find someone like you; Like keeping your promises.
Set a goal for yourself in 17th and September. First, keep your heart rate below 10 km and run for 60 minutes. Then the project accelerated. Then, just these two.
The goal I set for myself today is to choose between buying clothes and eating.
Nineteen, Gao took us to dinner, and school will start in a few days, and then two years. Set a small goal for yourself first, and lose 20 pounds to relax. After all, I always thought you were beautiful.
Set yourself a small goal that is easy to achieve, such as getting up early to buy a bag of steamed bread.
Twenty-one, set yourself a small goal, such as an advanced football team!
Twenty-two, first set a small goal for yourself, admitted to the cause, there are still small goals, in case it is realized!
Twenty-three, set a small goal for yourself, starting with being an activist! Salute to all dream catchers, good morning!
24. Set yourself a small goal! Lose 5 kilograms first? Let's talk about 5 Jin first!
Twenty-five, the remaining six months, set a goal for yourself in the comments, and I will turn it out at the end of the year.
Twenty-six people You must set yourself a goal. What if the goal is achieved? . . Hmm. September. I want to lose five Jin. Let's go . .
27. Set yourself a small goal. Do a marathon with a higher value. It is better to learn at the face value level. It is better to run a marathon in a well-studied school.
28. Uncle Jianlin said that he should set a small goal for himself. My small goal has not been achieved this year. I will work hard, and I must win the primary level in May next year!
Twenty-nine, I can't live aimlessly, I'm still young, I want to set a goal for myself!
Set yourself a small goal, such as buying a suite in Yulin first!
Thirty-one, the diary written by the spring and autumn girl, set a small goal for yourself, such as going to Cambridge to study, which is worthy of praise!
Thirty-two, another day to love you. Go back to school today and move to campus tomorrow. I set myself a goal: make more money and go to bed early. Also, satirize Zhang Wei, your love beans will stick to the center of the earth next year.
Thirty-three, I have a cousin 174cm. I want to set a goal for myself, such as practicing eight-pack abdominal muscles and biceps brachii!
Over and over again, my brain kept running, trying to stop him, but it kept running. The barking dog has been wandering outside the window, not knowing what he is thinking. What have you done recently? It seems that something is always planned, but there are still few actual actions. Laziness makes me lazy, my legs are short, and I still can't take that big step. It's time to set a goal for yourself, so it's 100 million!
Set yourself a small goal first, such as learning to ride a bike this semester? 1 1 month later? As thin as 100 kg? Forget it, I'm still wrestling with Lu Han, Li Zhongshi, Shawn Yue, Song Joong Ki and Yang Yang. Which one should I choose as my brain? Oh, what a pain! Qq motivates you to talk about phrases and find yourself a hard goal.
1, sometimes, facing the people around you, I suddenly feel speechless. Sometimes, things that have been adhered to are unrecognizable overnight. Sometimes, I want to indulge myself and hope that I will go crazy hysterically. Sometimes, people suddenly say to you, I think you have changed, and then they start to have mixed feelings. Sometimes, I feel that I have the whole world, but for a moment I feel that I actually have nothing.
The most beautiful scene in the world is when I miss my mother.
You put out your cigarette and spit out the last smoke ring. I vaguely heard you sob that you still want to go back to the past.
4, tired, that is, often hovering between persistence and giving up, indecisive. The trouble is that you have a good memory. What should be remembered and what should not be remembered will remain in memory. In life, the best measure of success is not how much money you earn, but whether you can live the life you want.
We smiled and said goodbye, but we knew goodbye was far away.
6. Life is one flower after another; Life is a journey without regrets. Walk quietly and watch silently, no matter the wind and rain, no matter the ups and downs.
7. When you make up your mind to do something, try your best to do it. Even if you don't achieve your expected return in the end, you still have to work hard. In this process, you will gradually realize your own shortcomings and what you really want. Give yourself a deadline, don't tell everyone, don't hesitate until you really try your best.
8. Before love comes, please try to make yourself better, mature and independent, because no one will take it for granted. If you want to be loved all the time, you deserve it.
9. People who have loved are all good. Because people who have been in love know what love is and how to love.
10, grateful for the bright moon, such as satin brilliance, such as frost beauty, we miss the moon pearl. Grateful classmates, we hold hands and are free. Promote each other and develop together. Grateful students, we silently pray for them on the field.
1 1, the saddest thing is to meet someone special, only to know that we can never be together. Sooner or later, you have to give up.
12, bad words hurt June more than words themselves, but the person who said this is very important to you.
13, in life, there are many fleeting moments, such as saying goodbye at the station, just hugging each other, and in an instant, they have already gone away.
14, if I can fight the blue sky, you gave me wings to fly; If I am a warrior who breaks the waves, you have given me the power to make waves; If I am an immortal torch, it is you who give me the light of youth!
15. As a person, we should respect our parents, be kind to our children, be generous to our poor relatives and be polite to everyone.