So once they have such an idea, they will only muddle along on the surface, then settle down and remain unchanged, no longer care about their time and image, and have no consciousness of improving their quality of life.
There are still some women who are unwilling to admit how important money is in life. They always feel that it is extremely utilitarian to measure their communication and ability with material things.
But in fact, the reason why we emphasize the importance of money is not entirely to satisfy our desires or show off anything. On the contrary, you can live a decent and free life, and you can show your value without relying on anyone.
If something goes wrong, it can be solved with money, and it won't be our biggest problem. Money can bring quality, stability and trouble without bargaining. It supports our life, and it will also improve our life, so that we can make more choices when facing the world.
There is an interesting discussion on the Internet, asking what is the difference between a rich woman and a poor woman? I probably summed up a few points to share with you:
(1) Different life concepts.
Women without money: save a little here, dig a little there, and only buy it when there is a discount in the mall. Every time I buy something, I compare prices everywhere and don't pay attention to food and clothing. My life is very rough.
Rich woman: She lives exquisitely, is not tired of work, has her own life circle, enjoys it, chooses it, and is not influenced by others.
2 tastes are different.
Woman without money: I don't know what kind of cosmetics are most effective for me; I only care about opening more convenience stores and selling points outside my home; Rarely travel.
Rich woman: a brand has a new style; This collocation is fashionable enough; What color is this lipstick, so it is suitable for business parties in the evening.
③ Different communication methods.
A woman without money: go to dinner as a last resort; Because of respect, I dare not tear my face with people I hate; Home is not because I like quiet, but because I have nowhere to go and no one to ask.
Rich woman: You can choose who you associate with and save yourself when you are bored. Making friends is not limited to your circle of colleagues, but will involve all industries; Entertainment is not limited to eating, shopping and watching movies.
(4) When looking for a job
A woman without money: as long as the other party wants me, I will do it first; The monthly salary is enough to last this month; The more comfortable you work, the less pressure you have, the better.
Rich woman: I care more about whether I can grow up and be independent; There will be more capital to choose and give up; Take what you like as a career.
5 when you are in love.
Woman without money: He took me to a fancy restaurant and bought me a present. He spent a lot of money on me. He must love me, so I promised him anything.
Rich woman: I have been to the restaurant he took me to; He gave me a lipstick and I bought him a skirt. He has his values and I have mine. When they hit it off, I will choose to be with him.
6. When you are lovelorn.
Women without money: Drunk, Lacrimosa, complaining to friends that their predecessors were all wrong.
Rich woman: Without love rat, it is nothing. Quickly adjust yourself, relax, go shopping with friends, and have fun in forget the sorrow. Besides new love and time, spending money is the best way to cure lovelorn.
All landowners married life
A woman without money: look at her husband's face today and her mother-in-law's face tomorrow; Reluctant to spend money, I bought it all for my children.
Rich woman: economically independent, even if you leave a man, you can live a more exciting life; It can not only give children better living conditions, but also dress beautifully and live exquisitely.
The above seven comparisons are actually two different lifestyles, but it is not difficult to see that rich women are more emboldened and more free and easy.
When you don't need to calculate life because of money, you can enjoy life. The money in hand is not only material security, but also the courage to resist life setbacks.
Catherine once said: Women, if they can choose between money and sex appeal, choose money. Money will make you sexy when you are old.
Of course, this refers to the money you earn on your own. When you know how to control your economy, your sense of self-worth will be greatly enhanced. Not only will the quality of life be upgraded to a higher level, but people will also become more confident and independent in love.
You will say: Who do I want to live with, not because I need it, but because I really like it.
This is not to say that women are better than men, but that you are better than yourself. When you make a breakthrough in material life, you don't need to expect to find a man who can help you share the financial burden of your family, but you can choose your true love and share it with each other.
So that's why I suggest you have some money. When you have money, you can say that you don't value money. When you achieve financial freedom, life will become comfortable and rich.