"It takes courage to do two things: one is to make a choice for your future, and the other is to love someone with all your strength."
The song "Courage", which was popular on the Internet recently, sang the impulse and courage to do everything for love.
In the comment area of this song, I saw such a message:
"When I wrote this song, it was also my true story.
Perhaps true love is that no matter right or wrong, liking or falling in love is wishful thinking, not afraid of the changes of time, no matter the wind and rain. "
Perhaps, we have all had wishful love, and we have been desperate to like someone, but more is the regret of missing someone because of lack of courage.
Therefore, this song Courage, composed by Pan and sung by Mianzi, touched our hearts and sang our story.
That's why the music clip of this song was played 8 million times on the day of its release. In just four months, Netease Cloud had 80,000 comments, and its melody could be heard everywhere in Tik Tok, Cool Dog, and Bi Li.
Courage is a simple word, but not everyone has it.
And too many love stories are related to courage.
Some time ago, there was a hot topic on the Internet: Who do you want to see for the first time after the epidemic?
Netizen @ Mei Zi's answer is: people who want to see but can't see.
? "I am the kind of person who is too timid to take any risks.
So even though I like him very much, I am afraid that if I am rejected, even my friends will have no choice, so I will always be an ostrich.
But after watching a lot of news these days, I really realized what impermanence is.
I really want to cherish every minute that is not too late.
If I can, I will tell him at the first time that I have hidden my love for a long time;
Tell him my worries and anxieties these days.
I want to ask him if it is possible for us to be together ... "
Although we don't know whether Mei Zi has the courage to express herself, she is very much like us who like and are uneasy.
As the song "Courage" sings:
You say so.
I am actually very upset.
If I don't make a promise,
Do you still love me ?
I remember when I was at school, I especially liked a boy.
With the help of my friend, I got his phone number and talked about my study.
But I have never had the courage to say "I like you."
In the movie "Later Us", there is such a short comment on Douban:
"Slowly, everyone will understand that not being with the person you like is actually the normal state of life."
Perhaps, love without love is the normal state of life.
But sometimes, I still think, if I were braver, would the outcome be different?
Host Ma Dong once said:
"Many years later, at the class reunion, you drank three rounds, and you finally got up the courage to say to her: I liked you then, you know?
She blushed, too: What? I like you too!
Finally, I can only touch my glasses with tears in my eyes: Haha, we really missed it. "
When I was young, I always showed more concern and less courage in the face of feelings.
People after middle age, recall the past, just understand:
Some people, once missed, are for life.
Perhaps, only brave people are worthy of love.
Then, I hope each of us can be brave.
I also hope that every time we set out, we will have the courage to meet the people we want to see.
In the Korean drama Please Answer 1988, the taciturn Zheng Huan silently likes De Shan.
He would tie his shoelaces loosely in front of Deshan's house just to wait for Deshan to go out and then pretend to pass by.
He is worried that Deshan will come home too late. He always stays up late. When Deshan comes home from the library, he will sleep peacefully.
He didn't like Deshan's ugly costume, but quietly hid behind the curtain and watched her practice seriously outside.
On the bus, he used his arms to protect Deshan. He wouldn't let go even if his arm was stiff and the veins stood out. He just didn't want her to be pushed down by the crowd. ...
But all this, Deshan doesn't know.
Zheng Huan obviously likes her very much. She has many opportunities to express her feelings, but she never has the courage to say it.
As he said in the play:
"It's not the traffic lights, it's not the timing, but my countless hesitations." ?
In a relationship, if you are not brave enough, if you have been hesitant, you should be prepared to lose someone.
So in the end, Jin Huan lost his virtue.
And this has become the biggest regret in his life.
Cottonseed sings in the song:
I love you
A group of fearless people
Use up your courage for the rest of your life.
Just to get close to you
Even a centimeter.
In fact, love is fair to everyone.
You worked hard, took the initiative to fight for it, and got up the courage, so maybe you can harvest a beautiful love.
Even if the ending of the story doesn't come to the end, at least I won't leave too many regrets for myself.
I remember in "The Story of Qipa", there was a debate topic like this: Which is more regrettable, not being together or not being together in the end?
A girl's answer is impressive:
She said:
"If I like a person, I will fall in love with this person from the first sight to the last sight and use up my feelings. As long as you have loved, you will leave traces. As for the past, I will stay in the wind. If I meet another glass of good wine, I will not hesitate to raise my glass to tell you that it is not why. "
If you like someone, why should you hide it, love it boldly and express it bravely?
The rest of your life is not long. Don't let go of those who can hold on tightly, and don't miss those who can love each other.
Don't let the lost love become a lifelong regret.
Last year, Chen Qiaoen accepted the confession of amateur male guest Allen in the variety "Daughter in Love" and gained sweet love.
Chen Qiaoen nodded with tears, red eyes SOB to say:
"Love didn't give up on me! Someone can be so brave for me! "
Chen Qiaoen, 40, seems that her relationship has never been very smooth, otherwise she wouldn't have been wandering until now.
But she did not lose the courage to love someone, but chose to continue to believe in love.
In the face of possible love, she bravely kept the appointment, even if she was nervous, she was fearless.
Fortunately, she waited for her love.
There is a saying in love during the cholera period:
"The kingdom of love is ruthless and stingy, and the weak will never enter the kingdom of love."
Love really needs courage.
It takes courage to pursue a person actively, accept a person again, or choose to let go of a person.
As the song goes:
fall in love with you
I left the dangerous chess behind me.
Not afraid of the changes of time.
In the future.
anyway/no matter what/ in any case
Being you is enough.
I saw a news on the Internet:
A noodle restaurant posted a leave note that read:
"Ex-girlfriend get married, go home to hit a son.
If you return safely, it will open on Tuesday. "
Later, when he returned safely, many people asked him if he had smashed the venue.
He said, no.
"After I went in, I saw her, wearing a white wedding dress, very beautiful, and the groom was quite handsome. I think I should bless her silently. "
Once, you thought that you could spend the rest of your life with her.
Now, she has taken another person's hand and entered the marriage hall.
If a relationship is doomed to stay, then it is better to bravely choose to let go and choose to bless silently.
In the comment area of the song "Courage", there is a message that reads:
A mother-in-law who sells wedding dresses said: After selling wedding dresses for so many years, I have never seen any boy who will be surprised from the heart when the curtain is opened. It took so many years to realize that they probably didn't keep their lover when they were young.
Missed love will never come back.
It is better to leave here than to be sad, regretful and sad.
Say goodbye to the past bravely, let go of yourself and others.
On the Zhihu, some people describe their regretful love like this:
Those white moments that were not shown in time, those love that should have been said at the first time, without a word "dare", became a regret.
Yes, 100 heartbeat is not as good as a brave love.
So, when you meet someone you like and something that interests you, just do it bravely.
Even if you love, even if the result is not satisfactory, it is better than doing nothing and thinking nothing.
You know, people who dare not take risks don't deserve the best, including life, including love.
Actually, life is very short. I hope you and I can have a brave heart, love boldly, take risks bravely and leave no regrets.