For example, when I was a freshman and a sophomore, I went to the library when I had nothing to do, because there was air conditioning there. After two years, I have read almost all the machine repair books except those that I am not particularly interested in. But so what? Now that I think about it, I have forgotten. If you don't occasionally think of some fragments in a film and television drama or article, you can't remember reading it at all.
I went to college as an undergraduate, and many of my classmates took part in the work after college. By the time I graduated from college, many of them had got along well. So I was confused at the time. I used to think that going to college was a waste of time, and reading didn't work at all for reality.
Later, I asked an industry elder, and she said three things, which completely changed my reading consciousness.
Reading can cultivate one's temperament.
Before I went to college, as soon as I came across some important articles in Chinese class, the teacher asked me to summarize the main contents and central ideas. The main content is ok. Summarize the story in a few words and you can basically answer it. The central idea is annoying, because it is hidden and needs to be understood with heart. That's why I hate China people.
Many years later, recalling those articles at that time, the plot has long been blurred. But their central idea can still be clearly expressed. Why? Because the plot is only external, the thought is the connotation. Externality only affects people's eyes, and thoughts affect people's hearts.
There is a big difference between the two. No matter how close you are, you can't think of his clear face when you close your eyes. But you just know him, know him, think of him and come up with a lot of adjectives. This is the memory of the soul.
Reading a book, knowing who is in it and what is in it is only basic. It is important to know the author's feelings. Reviewing these feelings and influencing one's values and temperament is the greatest gain of reading.
Reading can comfort the soul.
I once read a joke about why I want to study. For example, when you see birds on the lake at sunset, people who have read books will blurt out: Sunset and lonely Qi Fei, autumn waters are the same day. Those who haven't read a book can only say: lying in the trough, many birds, how beautiful!
In fact, the latter comment is also very cute and unpretentious. But on many occasions, we can't be too casual. More importantly, are we eager to acquire knowledge?
Knowledge, even the illusion of knowledge, will become your armor and protect you from ignorance. Now that the social economy is developed, the way to acquire knowledge is not limited to reading. But I don't know if you feel this way. Whether reading e-books, listening to books, watching videos or taking physical classes, we always feel that something is missing. This kind of feeling can only be satisfied by holding a real book, smelling the book and reading the ink.
As for some areas where people can't study because of objective conditions, I think they will feel anxious and confused.
Reading can stop stupidity.
A person may encounter all kinds of things in his life. In order to deal with them, he must master various skills. Besides personal experience, the rest is reading.
What is "stupid" Lack of IQ and EQ. IQ is easy to understand. We can master what we don't understand by reading books, and so can EQ. To give a very simple example, reading detective mystery novels will improve the reasoning ability invisibly; Watching more romance will make you feel delicate; Reading more poems and songs will increase your romantic temperament; Reading more Buddhist and Taoist classics can cultivate one's mind and nature.
From a scientific point of view, there are a large number of mirror neurons in the human brain. We can stimulate these neurons by reading. Over time, we can form the habit of thinking and become a part of us. Although I read it in a book, it's like my own personal experience. I think this is the original meaning of the word experience.
Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million. Books are the essence of wisdom accumulated by thousands of years of human development. By reading these essences, we can transcend the exterior, get rid of ignorance, sublimate our souls and become the unique one in the crowd.
Therefore, reading is not for you to pretend to say "Wow, this person reads a lot" in front of people, but to enrich your mind, enhance your values, enrich your personality and shape your charm and temperament.
Only superficial people show off everywhere, leaving books only in words. A real scholar's books are embedded in his bones,
You can find the shadow of the books he has read and the things he has experienced from his words and deeds.
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