First of all, generally speaking, children's weariness of learning reflects their lack of pursuit of love and belonging, perhaps because they don't feel the sense of accomplishment and fun brought by going to school, which is ultimately because parents don't attach importance to their children. Parents need to communicate campus life with their children, praise and praise their excellent performance, including helpful quality and excellent sports ability, so that children can feel a sense of accomplishment and parental support and relationship.
Secondly, behind children's weariness of learning, it also reflects children's desire for a warm home and a harmonious relationship between parents. When parents split, children will have the most intuitive feelings, become painful and uncomfortable, full of anger or depression. Therefore, to improve children's weariness of learning, parents need to have self-knowledge, maintain the relationship of gender unity, and give children the need of love and belonging;
Third, adolescent children need their parents to learn to read minds. At this stage, children pursue personal space and a sense of accomplishment. Therefore, parents should give their children this need, give them the right to make their own decisions, give them space for private activities, and give them the right to put forward personal opinions and ideas. At the same time, when a child successfully completes something, such as winning a basketball game, parents should praise him immediately instead of accusing him of "what's the use of winning a basketball game"; See the children's emotions, care about the reasons why they appear, and give him a chance to talk, instead of suppressing their emotions and becoming more and more isolated from their parents.
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