Once rural college students graduate from work, they are generally eager to be filial, send money to their parents, buy things for their relatives and so on. This is human nature in itself, and it is natural to be filial to parents. College students from rural areas, however, have low income when they first started working and are eager to send money home. It will inevitably reduce its own social capital. Over time, the circle is not big after working for a long time, and the development is naturally limited. Rural parents and other children mostly work, and there is a serious mentality of getting ahead, but they don't know this mentality, which will seriously compress their development space.
There is a serious shortage of reserve forces.
Children born in rural areas have a general economic situation at home. His parents are both from rural areas, and social resources are not much for him. Moreover, after he graduated from college, parents in rural areas always felt powerless and even wanted more from their children. However, life and work itself are multi-line operations. Without the support of family, the experience will be seriously dispersed, and it will be impossible to persist and do things in a certain direction.
3 its own pattern is not big enough.
We generally have a saying that girls should be raised well. The so-called food and clothing here is actually very important for both boys and girls. If there are good conditions, it can be used to create better learning opportunities for children and take her to see the bigger world. Then, let him touch more things, and then have a better platform and development, then it will touch the bigger world itself, and its own pattern is also very large. But he doesn't have the condition of a rural child. We also know how much family background affects a person, and the background environment can affect people's pattern. Many people think that horizon limits the development of rural children, which is undeniable, but for rural college students, what really limits us is not horizon, but pattern, mind and way of thinking. The horizon can be broadened with the growth of knowledge. The latter requires painful reflection and comprehension, and can accurately identify sesame or watermelon in front, not only by eyes, but more importantly by heart.
4 self-esteem that is not good at circuitous.
Children in rural areas can go to college, study for graduate students, and graduate with a doctorate. Generally, they have a good reputation at home and in the village. Such children often have strong self-esteem. However, too obvious self-esteem in work communication will seriously limit a person's ability to wander around. In fact, a sunny mind, don't always think about grand ideals and ambitions, go out and meet more friends, which will greatly improve the emotional intelligence and ability of rural children, and love is also an excellent opportunity to change a person. Especially if you are lucky enough to find a girlfriend who understands the overall situation, has a pattern and a vision, you will change a lot.
As a rural baby, I appreciate the efforts to admit and clearly recognize my own condition defects and deficiencies. Hold your horses, don't compare with others, dig deep into a certain industry field, and establish your own reputation and popularity in this field, and your and your family's ability to resist risks will be enhanced, which is self-evident for people from rural areas. When you are forty or fifty years old and have a certain position and reputation in the industry and units, many changes will naturally come.