To tell you the truth, I am disgusted with his practice from the heart. I feel that this gentleman is almost a human being and regards me as his slave, because I didn't embarrass him on the spot for the first time. He thought I was a bully, so he came again for the second time and asked others to give me instructions. With the first trust, he thought I would never shirk it, saying that I would give a report at the meeting the next morning or ask me to work at night. I didn't write a word this time, and I went to town early the next morning. When he came to the meeting, he was a little panicked when he saw that I hadn't handed in my manuscript and couldn't find my people. When you see me, ask why you didn't finish the task in time. I said I had to report to the town for a meeting, so I didn't have time. He said that your personal affairs are as important as my report. I smiled. It seems that my cultural stationmaster exists in name only. I said, am I your secretary? He speaks softly. He came to you because you can write. This is because I respect you. I said thank you for your high praise. This kind of soft resistance made him a little helpless and had to stop. It was not until he made a mistake and was transferred from his post that he realized that he was a little sorry for me. He said that he can also be an able person, but his understanding is vague and he lacks sobriety. He said he shouldn't have been so frivolous and disrespected the man's personality, which was probably the reason for his failure. It's too late to learn skillfully now, so I have to forgive him.
Maybe I usually like to do more things, and I don't know how much I have done this worthless service, not only because I can write a few beautiful calligraphy, but also because I usually like to dispatch my smart thinking to write some articles. A few years ago, I began to be busy ten days before the Spring Festival. Some leaders even asked me to buy red paper. To put it mildly, I took a fancy to my words and posted them on the door to make me famous. I want to write hundreds of couplets, and I want to explain myself until I don't answer back.
On the surface, it may be understandable that "a wise man is a slave to a fool". But there should be too much one-sidedness in saying this, and it is definitely not a bad thing to achieve "capable people". There is a saying in our country that "it is free to choose epilepsy and learn to cross the river in your stomach". The boatman doesn't care about the epileptic, because the epileptic will drown if he falls into the water. What if the boatman has the responsibility to push the needle with him? It's nothing to wait on him once. This also shows that it is better to learn a skill in your stomach than to ask others.
But from a human point of view, I can serve you for free. If you treat me as a slave, then I can have the right to refuse, and everyone is equal before personality. Just like that little leader was rejected by me for the second time, it was because of his improper attitude towards employing people last time. A person who gets carried away is bound to bring losses to himself. It should be said that if you subjectively want to treat many "capable people" as slaves, it will inevitably lead to your failure.
"Guests come to the garden to enjoy it, but we have to understand the hardships of the host. Understand the efforts of those unknown gardeners. The beautiful flowers reflect the original desolation and blank of this place.
"A wise man is a slave to fools", which is also an unbalanced confession of a wise man. If you, an able person, don't want to be a slave to others, and no one forces you, everyone has the freedom to live. At present, after all, everyone advocates equality and human rights equality. If you don't listen to him, I think it's no big deal. What can he do to you? It's just that you are soft-hearted and kind-hearted. What can you say? Besides, it's good for a wise man to keep a little virtue, and there's nothing to care about with those "stupid generals"
For the whole society, there are too few people without conscience, and even fewer people are cruel and heartless. It is still appropriate to help someone who is not familiar with business, and good intentions are rewarded. Even if he doesn't repay you, you should have a sense of pride. As for the person who wants to ask the skillful man to serve him, the starting point may not be so indecent, but he really wants your help. If I don't do this, I will ask for help. Perhaps because I don't want others to be my slaves, I try to know more about life, ask for less as far as possible, and try to be an able person in many ways, so as to gain more self-reliance ability. In this way, I also have a good opportunity to serve others.
Generally speaking, a person should be more upright and grateful for accepting the services of others. "General" mentality is an abnormal interpersonal phenomenon in society. The whole society should advocate more capable people, less stupid people, more "slaves" and less "generals". As for the saying that "wise men are slaves to fools", we still have to look at it with a sunny eye, and there is no need to pay attention to that dark psychology. We believe that "able people" will always be the main body of society and the masters of promoting social progress, while those so-called "fools", as spiritual aristocrats, will always be so clumsy and disgraceful that they will become more and more isolated. Will be easily abandoned by society.
It seems that it is better to be an "able person" in the world and natural society. Now, after all, it is not a slave society, and the spiritual aristocracy is having a hard time. When they lose their ability to take care of themselves, will "capable people" still be willing to serve you? At that time, you will think how good Dont Ask For Help is.