As adults, we will inevitably step on the pit when renting a house. We hope to record the loss of these pits, so as to warn future generations what kind of operation is a good way to protect their own interests.
But what I want to say is that different people have different magnetic fields and meet different people. Not all landlords cheat tenants, and not all tenants cheat landlords. This is actually a process of mutual choice, not only for tenants to choose houses, but also for tenants and landlords to choose from each other. Some people have met and talked, and you may know where TA doesn't match your magnetic field. At this time, there is no need to continue to make do, and renting a house is the same. I will live in the near future.
Back to the topic, why did I say there was no strategy I wanted to see? I don't want to see the process of the game between tenants and landlords. What I want to see is the psychological process of the tenant's game with himself.
In fact, when we look at the house, we often consider the following aspects: area, distance from the company, commuting mode, commuting time, psychological budget, convenience and so on.
These indicators have different weights in different people's eyes. Most raiders will tell you that distance and cost should be the first factors to consider when choosing a house, but please note that that is just the idea behind the screen of TA, which is the first factor to consider based on the actual conditions of TA. However, these indicators are not universal, and everyone should choose the indicators they value according to their actual situation. What I want to see is why these indicators have different consideration orders and weights in the eyes of different tenants, but they are not mentioned in these strategies.
I am special, unlike most white-collar workers on the Internet, and I am engaged in glamorous work in the CBD in the city center. I am an ordinary engineer in manufacturing industry. I wear tooling to shuttle between the office and the workshop during working hours. Our company's location is also far away, in the development zone. "Development Zone" is an interesting name. To put it bluntly, it is actually called "Yeling". It is not surprising that the industrial areas of every city are located in the periphery, suburbs or suburbs of the city.
There are basically factories near the company, and you can reach the living area in about ten minutes by car. The living area here is not a bustling city where many people gather, but a place where there are not so many factories. Such a place is generally close to the village, and the dormitory rented by our company is in a community at the entrance of the village.
For me, when I just graduated, I was very strange to Guangzhou, even though I was new here. I don't know what my actual job is, what it's like around the company, and what kind of colleagues I will have. So, for the first time, I chose to stay in the company dormitory.
Triple room, no compartment, bunk beds, much like a university dormitory, with two people, me and another roommate. She is an operator on the production line, with two shifts, once every two weeks, and we work two weeks every month. In the past two weeks, I have to be careful when I go to work with her, and I dare not make any noise, for fear of waking another person who is still sleeping, but in fact, no matter how careful I am, the sound of washing still echoes in my ears, and it is common to wake up.
I lived in the dormitory for three months. During these three months, I gradually became familiar with Shang Chao, buses, subways, communities and commuter bus lines arranged by the company within 10 km near the company.
Three months later, after getting familiar with what I wanted to know, I moved away, lived in a neighborhood near a subway in Xintang Town, and shared a room with my colleagues. This is my first time to move, and the main factors to consider are commuting distance, convenient transportation and rent.
The commuting time has increased from the original 10 minutes to 40 minutes, and the rent has more than doubled. However, it is close to the subway entrance, and it takes 15 minutes to walk. You can go to the city center and change to the subway twice. Everything is as I expected.
I have lived in Xintang for two years. In the past two years, I don't remember how I spent the weekend. I should stay at home most of the time. On weekends, I will take a day off to visit the Pearl River New Town and occasionally take part in some hiking activities.
In the past two years, I don't know what good habits I have developed. It is at this time that gluttony is infected and addicted. It is not that I am addicted to food because I live here, but that I am addicted to food because I live here freely and live too comfortably.
19 years, I considered changing rooms. I didn't think so much at that time. The main reason is actually to change roommates. Roommate is a glamorous girl, but in fact, the home is very messy, the room is not cleaned, and the hygiene of public areas is not concerned. The fruit rotted on the table and gave birth to a lot of mosquitoes, so she wouldn't throw it away. I felt like a nanny when I lived with her. Clean every room once a week, and be responsible for checking whether her food in public areas is rotten or about to rot, and then throw it away.
I politely told her that cleaning for a week alone had no effect at all. As usual, she didn't come home when she was about to clean up, and she told me confidently that that XX house didn't clean every week.
After listening, I was speechless. I don't want to say anything more. I looked up and didn't see it. A tense relationship is not good for everyone. Besides, she is much more active in the company than I am.
I can't stand my roommate's habit, which is the biggest trigger for my move. It seems that you are very narrow-minded even when you say it. I didn't tell anyone. They asked me why I moved. I only said that there were too many mosquitoes in the old house and I wanted to change to a higher floor.
I would rather change to a more expensive place and feel better than stay in that house every day, looking around and sulking with myself.
At that time, I thought about moving to a place near the city, but I was scared off by the rent, or when my consumption level was still 18, I would rather put up with my roommate than the expensive rent in the city. Of course, another reason is laziness, laziness in finding a house, laziness in moving, and fear of trouble.
In my second year in Xintang, I became more curtilage. Even under the influence of my roommate, I began to be sensitive to haggle over every ounce. I watched the radio more times this year, and my desire for food is also high. I can stay at home all day and keep stuffing things into my mouth from morning till night until my stomach hurts so much that I can't sleep. On weekends, I live an upside-down life day and night, staying up until the early hours of the morning at night, and getting up normally the next day to go to the snack bar to buy something I want to eat. I have never been so hungry for food.
This year, my relationship with my roommate is getting colder and colder. When I get home, I basically go back to my room and do my own thing. There is no communication, and we rarely greet each other. This year, she hardly cleaned the house. Every time I can't stand it, I clean it up completely. Sometimes, I will be very authoritative, so why should I be angry with myself? It is better to clean the room everywhere and feel comfortable. So I will clean my room once a week for half a year. Later, I met this epidemic and stayed at home for two months. When I came home again, the dirty expression in the room completely broke me down. I decided that I couldn't bear it anymore and simply changed the house.
After making up my mind to change the house, I began to look for a house. I want to move to Guangzhou (our name is Guangzhou in Tianhe District) because it is convenient. It is also because, although I am in one of the four first-tier cities known as "North to Guangzhou and Shenzhen", I have never felt what the real Guangzhou should look like.
When I live in Xintang, I stay at home and do my own thing after work every day, and the farthest place is just going to the supermarket. Even Wanda in Xintang has never been there. On the one hand, the traffic is not convenient, on the other hand, I really can't bear to go out for a stroll. Even if I go to Pearl River New Town on weekends, I just go to the library or museum for a dip. Even if I went to Sports West, I just finished eating and shopping in Tianhe City or Tian Huan and left. After two years in Guangzhou, I don't know what the city should be like. I don't know where the charm of this city lies; I wonder what kind of life young people in this city live. How do they catch the subway to work? How do they make a living by running? Where did the people who hurried on the road finally go? I have neither time nor mind to observe.
All I can see is my colleagues I know. Like me, they commute from home to work by commuter from eight to five. My circle is surprisingly narrow. I never thought that life after work would be like this.
I haven't experienced the strangeness brought by big cities, and I feel tired in advance. I haven't started to look at the city seriously, and I have begun to be afraid to leave. I want to take the time to get to know this city seriously, with my eyes, my ears, my heart and my feet, instead of using my mobile phone in other people's mouths.
Tianhe can't represent Guangzhou either, but moving to Tianhe means that I am close to the young people in this city. I want to experience the morning and evening rush hour they are experiencing, and I want to experience the wits and wits they have experienced with the landlord's rent. I want to feel the convenience, warmth and noise of this city, and I also want to feel the crowded and cunning of this city.
After deciding the area, I began to search the neighborhood near the bus station on the map, looking for rental information on Douban to understand the rental situation. One private letter asks about the authenticity of the house, screens the favorite house information one by one, and then makes an appointment to see the house one by one to understand the more specific rental information of the house.
After this battle, I realized that the so-called village in the city is actually a series of civil reconstruction houses outside the busy streets of Guangzhou, and the owners of the houses really have the floor to collect rent. It turns out that the so-called "alley building" means that after leaving the main street, you can only get to the door through the alley, and some alleys are too small to hold luggage. It turns out that the "handshake building" is the distance between the two families within reach. It turns out that the water and electricity in the village in the city are paid according to commercial standards. In a house in a village in the city, the landlord is the sky, and there is no so-called friendship with the tenant. It turns out that in such a hot summer in Guangzhou, some houses are not equipped with air conditioning …
Only when I left my familiar place and got to know a new place, did I realize that the so-called big city was helpless and unbearable, and I saw that there was so much dirt and darkness behind so much glamour. It turns out that some chic is just a superficial disguise, some poor are really poor and some rich are really rich.
Considering commuting time, rent and roommate habits, I chose Dongpu. It's a better choice for me. Compared with the past, the commuting time has increased by 20 minutes, and the monthly rent and water and electricity have increased in 300 yuan, but I still live in the "city" that I have been longing for for for a long time.
I started to look at the house two months in advance, but because it was too long in advance, many houses could not stay that long. Therefore, I have been comparing the houses in various communities back and forth, and have a general understanding of different houses in various regions.
I once planned to give up living in Xintang again because the house in Guangzhou exceeded the budget, but I still didn't meet a suitable one in Xintang. After tossing and turning, I made up my mind to live in Dongpu two weeks before moving.
On Dragon Boat Festival, I decided to move. The room, living room and kitchen in my new home are smaller than before, and the rent, utilities and other expenses in my new home are also much higher than before, but I am extremely comfortable in my heart.
Here, I want to cherish this house and make it warm; Will share food and mood with roommates, each happy; I will go out shopping with my roommate for beauty, and spend the delicate days of girls together ... Here, I seem to see the days that girls should have. It's not that I spent money, so I'm happy, but because I began to integrate into life and take the rented days for myself.