In the past, I always liked to make some intimate friends because of my personality. I always had a good impression on people who are cheerful and frank, and I also like to make friends with such people. One of our roommates gave me this feeling when she first came here. She is very enthusiastic about us and works quickly. Because of this, we all spoke highly of him from the beginning, and felt that this man was really good and a friend worthy of knowing.
But reality always runs counter to imagination. In less than two months, this roommate showed the fox's tail. First, provoke the relationship between roommates and increase the disharmony of dormitory; Later, he gossiped in front of his seniors. Finally, in front of teachers and leaders, I wish I could step on you. People who knew these things at that time were very surprised and unbelievable. We all thought he was very good, and suddenly we found that the fact was really quite different from what we knew! And I myself have been cheated many times because of him. From then on, I really realized what is the separation of abdomen and heart, what is watching the fire from the other side, I have learned a lot about people's hearts, and I also understand why people often say not to sell themselves short!
In fact, this principle can be applied in any field and is reasonable at any stage. After all, the society is complex and people's hearts are not ancient. You can't hurt others, but you can't stop others!