Understand their interests with their heads, not simply qualitative (such as miscellaneous books)

Find more opportunities to discuss things that interest you.

Encourage children to put forward their own opinions and try to accept them, even if they can't accept them for a while, they can't object subjectively and arbitrarily; In particular, don't just oppose what you don't understand.

After communication is smooth (it may take a process), you can put forward your own opinions, but you can't force your children to accept them.

The best way to guide is not to constantly put forward your own views and opinions, but to care more about children and let them feel love; Pay more attention to children and let them have a sense of existence.