People who strike up a conversation have the opportunity to enjoy the wonderful experience of dating their favorite object; Those who don't strike up a conversation, influenced by the rigid thinking of traditional society, demonize the act of "striking up a conversation", which combines courage and good communication skills, and can only stay in endless regret forever.
However, more importantly, chatting up is not just chatting up. As long as you dare to strike up a conversation, your mind will change, your energy will increase and your energy will expand. From then on, you will get rid of interpersonal alienation, live confidently and happily, and be full of interest and enthusiasm for yourself and others.
[Edit this paragraph] Precautions for the accost
-Don't talk to strange women from behind.
□ Smile naturally when eyes are opposite.
-Don't look at each other from top to bottom.
Be natural and don't let the other person think that you are hitting on her on purpose.
Don't rush to touch each other anywhere.
Don't give up when the other party refuses, you need to make persistent efforts. Invited at least five times.
-don't pester each other, let alone block each other's way, follow. Even if it fails, it's no big deal.
-Be self-aware and don't aim too high. If two people look too far, they will scare off each other.
-this way of meeting can enjoy the pleasure of getting along with her briefly. If you can arrange the next meeting with her, it will be a complete success. Know how to end this first contact at the right time.
If the woman's reaction is enthusiastic, you don't need to stick to the above practice, but should "pursue the victory."
[edit this paragraph] strike up a conversation taboo
The first rule is not to ask questions for the sake of asking them.
Ask only those questions that are "useful" to your conversation. This "useful" mainly refers to helping you judge the chances and possibilities of getting along with her at the moment.
Second, try to replace interrogative sentences with declarative sentences.
For example, talk to a MM who is wandering in the lobby. "Are you waiting for someone?" It's not as effective as "it seems that your friend is late, too."
After careful understanding, the tone of the latter is more decisive, natural and friendly, and it also subtly hints at the state of the accost himself. In contrast, the former's simple question neither explains any information about herself, but also asks the opposite party to provide you with her situation, which makes MM very nervous and resistant.
The third question does not need to be answered by the other party
For example, "I want to know you?" And "How about we go together?" The essence of these two sentences is "I want to know you" and "I want to go with you", just stating your purpose to MM, but if you are silent after speaking, then these two sentences become pure questions, "I want to know you, ok?" "Let's go together, ok?
And the other party must choose between yes and no, at this time, out of self-protection instinct, MM is more likely to make a negative answer. So the key skill is not to be silent, not to be embarrassed, not to wait for MM to talk, and immediately cut into the second sentence to chat. For example, "what's the weather like today" and "what's this place like" ... so, there are steps on both sides.
The question at the end of article 4 should be direct.
The last question when chatting up is usually asking for contact information. Frankly telling each other your wishes is actually a kind of DHV (high value display). Brave and confident men can satisfy MM's vanity better than men who beat around the bush. Therefore, it is naive to find a reason to say goodbye first and then ask for the phone number, unless your goal is a little girl who is not wet behind the ears.
[Edit this paragraph] Advantages of hitting on people
Chatting up is a very good way to improve yourself!
Chatting up can help you build up stronger self-confidence.
Chatting up can change your view of the world.
Chatting up can make you have a more positive attitude towards life.
Chatting up can make your life more passionate.
Chatting up can help you expand your social circle.
Chatting up can help you improve your communication skills.
Chatting up can help you find a better partner of the opposite sex.
Chatting up can give you a clearer understanding of yourself.
Our slogan is: do a good thing every day, do a bad thing every day!
[Edit this paragraph] Create a dialogue keyword.
The "three-second rule" means you must shoot within three seconds of seeing the target. This trick is to let the chat-up person have no room for his own thinking and achieve his goal with high enthusiasm. Some people think that this is what experienced people do to experienced people. But the internet says this is more suitable for beginners. For veterans, the key is to see if they are firm inside. If so, even tracking for an hour is like a sniper waiting for an opportunity; If not, even if you do it in three seconds, you will still be coy. Therefore, when the environmental constraints, lack of experience, and the rejection of the other party are no longer psychological barriers to chatting up, the remaining opponents are increasingly pointing to themselves.
Strike up a conversation should have a complete set of works and an ending word. The so-called ending word is the drama equal to the beginning.
It's not important when you know each other, but after you know each other! Every reason has its consequences! When making fruit, you should know how to use it, and learn to coordinate different people with external steel and internal steel. Strike up a conversation should be artistic, not blind. There is no right or wrong in this world, only the right medicine!
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