The strategy of cultivating students' civility and politeness in family education is civility and politeness education. As a member of society, politeness is a basic code of conduct that must be observed based on social life. Only by observing this code of conduct can we be comfortable in social life and be accepted and recognized by everyone. Parents want their children to be polite, educated and recognized and loved by everyone, which requires parents to educate their children on etiquette in family education.

Politeness education for children should be carried out from all aspects of food, clothing, housing and transportation, and should be included in daily events. At the same time, we should set an example and pay attention to our manners and manners, so as not to cause bad demonstrations. In the process of education, parents should pay attention to the first education. When a child makes a polite or impolite behavior for the first time, he must pay more attention, praise or criticize in time, and strengthen his good performance. Civilization and politeness education is not a systematic education, but a standardized education based on various trivial matters in people's daily life. When parents educate their children in this respect, they should grasp all kinds of small things in daily life, such as dressing appropriately, greeting each other when they meet, and giving up their seats by car. And teach civilized manners and norms to children in small matters.