Each of us has a different background, education and experience, and naturally we have different views on one thing, so we can't force it. Just like the story of "Zhuangzi and Keiko playing together on Haoshui Bridge". We are not fish, so naturally we don't know the happiness of fish. There are some things that we haven't felt, so naturally we won't understand other people's ideas. We should not judge others' right and wrong at will, but should be more understanding and tolerant. Sometimes you may think that flowers are inserted in cow dung, and you think that the door is wrong. They don't match well, just like Cowherd's niece is not tolerated by God. But how do you know they are not in love? How do you know they don't hit it off? Some people like the tension in big cities, so we shouldn't criticize why people don't come to small counties to live comfortably; Some people like the comfort of small cities, so we don't need to criticize others for their lack of pursuit and ambition. Some people don't like step by step, don't like everything arranged by their families for them, and prefer to work hard by themselves. We shouldn't dig at others who don't know how to enjoy life. You are not the sea, how can you understand its selflessness? You are not a mountain, how can you understand the depth of the mountain? You are not a grass, how can you know the hardships of grass?
"After death, you will sleep forever. Why do you want to sleep forever? " Hard work is also a day, and no effort is also a day. Why don't you work hard? People always die. It is better to fight for him than to do nothing, just as Zhu Kaishan did. "Bitter is not bitter, think about the 25,000-mile long March; Tired or not, think about revolutionary veterans! " Whose life is not painful, whose life is not easy. Behind success is either dirty or vicissitudes. Sitting and making money is a dream. Life is like climbing a mountain. Only by constantly walking can we go further. It is inevitable that thorns sting the body on the road, but it is this kind of pain that proves that we are moving forward. If you are comfortable now, you are a frog in warm water, slowly boiled to death, but still unaware of it.
After graduation, break up if you can't be together. Because you and I are both passers-by in our own lives, everything is fate, just like birds in the forest. Relatives are about to die of illness. Don't be sad, don't be sad. Because we will leave one day, just like autumn leaves falling with the wind. I tried my best to take the postgraduate entrance examination but failed, so accept the reality frankly. Because life is inevitably bumpy, just like the sea, the tide rises and falls. When singing, time slips away from our corners of the mouth; When watching TV, time slips away from our eyes; When playing mobile phone, time slips away from our fingertips. Ups and downs in cold and summer, the sun and the moon alternate, and the stars change, regardless of your will and mine. Flowers bloom when it is time to bloom, and dawn when it is time to dawn. Let bygones be bygones, happy or sad, blowing in the wind. What we can do is to be kind to ourselves, seize the present and cherish everything before.
Each of us is just a drop in the ocean and can't be insignificant. Our life is not vigorous, but a clear conscience. Some people say that my life is too dull and without passion. Actually, my life is not that passionate. Life is dull, just like a bowl of boiled water. Although colorless and tasteless, it will give you enough nutrition and give you strength every day. We should learn to enjoy this dullness and tranquility, and thank ordinary life for making our hearts no longer impetuous. Although we are ordinary, we can't be calm inside. We should demand what we can get. Find your own position, analyze your strengths and weaknesses, and see if you are suitable for that job. Only by finding the right position and defining the goal can we get twice the result with half the effort. 1984, in the Tokyo International Marathon Invitational Tournament, the little-known Ibn Yamada unexpectedly won the championship. It turned out that before every race, he had to take a car to look at the race route carefully and draw the more eye-catching signs along the way until the end of the race. After the game started, he rushed to the first goal, passed the first goal and rushed to the second goal at the same speed. After running a few small goals, he easily finished the whole race. "
In my sophomore year, I worked as an intern in the principal's office for a week. When I left, I asked the leader to give me a word. The leader said, "You have to understand everything by yourself." Reading thousands of books is not as good as taking Wan Li Road; Wan Li Road, it is better to have a master's advice; Enlighten yourself, it is better to let the master guide you. When Shen Congwen writes a composition, he always looks for material from life, because he thinks that "my wisdom should be absorbed and digested from direct life, not from a good book or a good word". People who see success should be good at discovering their advantages. There must be a reason for success. Is he more diligent? Is he more cautious? Does he know how to unite people better? When we fail, we should know that there must be a reason for failure. Confucius said, "I save three times a day." We should constantly reflect on ourselves, constantly explore and find our own way of life and the ability to support our families and make money. I stopped drinking so much when I saw others drinking to death. Seeing that others have made a fortune, we will think about whether we have entered that industry. When you see someone else get promoted, you should think about why you have been standing still for so many years. Only by observing life with your heart, a beautiful life will take care of you.