In fact, the first step is the most important as far as chatting up people is concerned. As long as people tell you, the hardest part will be over. The next steps are nothing more than inviting guests to eat snacks, asking questions, borrowing books, asking for numbers, eating, shopping and playing, and expressing this order, but it doesn't take that long to know at once. The execution time and emphasis of each step depends on your understanding and communication with the other party, and there must be countless variables. Maybe the next second you will see someone else's boyfriend or sponsor, which is unavoidable. Without risk, love is not love but arranged marriage.