There are many choices in life, some are involuntary, some are willing, some are helpless, and some are unforgettable.
When I was a child, I chose my favorite toys. When I was young, I chose my favorite friends. When you grow up, choose the school you want to go to; As an adult, choose your ideal lover. There are still many choices in these growth processes. Learn to choose what you want and learn to be responsible for your choice. With the continuous selection process, a person slowly grows and matures.
It's a good thing to have a choice, which is much better than leaving you with no way out at the last minute and having the courage to put all your eggs in one basket to face the only choice. If you have a choice, you have to choose, just like walking at a fork in the road, facing the intersection in different directions, you have to make a choice that is not the best, but the most suitable for you.
If you have a choice, you should know yourself, your heart and what you want. Choice is an opportunity given to you by God. It is not easy to seize this opportunity, so that you can take a step forward instead of going backwards on the road of life, and let you remember that choice for a long time, and feel heartfelt relief instead of regret. So if you want to choose, you must face yourself and know what you really want first.
All sentient beings, too many people can't help coming into this world, living in a daze until the end of their lives, and leaving helplessly. How many people can clearly know how to dominate their own destiny, know the direction they want to go, and make unremitting efforts all the way. Faced with every choice given to them by God, they can grasp their own destiny and make steady progress. It is precisely because there are so few such people that there are so many feelings in this world. The so-called involuntary, the so-called life is like a play, the so-called impermanence, and the so-called life is just like the first sight. In the final analysis, it is endless regret for my original choice, regret for the injustice of heaven, and regret for my misfortune.
In fact, every choice is my own decision. Whether others help you make up your mind, or you can't resist the temptation of the outside world, it's your own decision after all. At the beginning, if you can be more rational, know yourself better, understand life more, and be more responsible for yourself and others, then after all this, your life will be much less reckless and helpless.
So some people say that there are three regrets in life: no choice, no persistent choice, and constant choice.
When I was a child, I felt itchy when my family came to the store to choose gifts and looked at the dazzling array of toys. I can't wait to bring all the interesting things home. But when I was told that I could only choose the same, my original happy mood became extremely difficult. I like it when I look at it, but I hate it when I look at it. Hesitate, don't know what to choose. Finally, I made up my mind to go home happily with my beloved toy in my arms. After a few days, my enthusiasm became dull, only to see the child next door holding a toy I like better, and then look at this one in my hand. My original love was greatly discounted. So, looking back at the original choice, I regret how I chose this instead of that. What was originally happy became unhappy. That's because children haven't learned to understand themselves and their inner needs. Usually, in order to comfort children and satisfy their wishes, family members will spare no effort to give them another chance to choose. The children are in high spirits and happy again. However, this process usually doesn't last long, the reality always can't keep up with the pace of inner desires, and a new cycle is about to begin.
Children are simple, and their inner preferences need not be concealed, so when faced with choices, they don't have to be responsible for their choices like adults. As an adult, there are more choices. The world of flowers is dazzling. And the pace of human desire is always ahead of the pace of growth. Therefore, the choice of adulthood is more important, and it is responsible for the future life. This requires us to examine ourselves and reflect on ourselves in order to make a more suitable choice.
Although the reason is so simple, it doesn't seem so simple.
Faced with the opportunity of choosing a school, finding a job, falling in love and getting married, how many people may understand that a casual reason may affect the result of the choice, and this casual choice will bring another different scenery to the future life. At the beginning, a suggestion from others, or a hesitation in your heart, decided that you should leave your family for a strange city for the first time after the college entrance examination and start another part of your life. This city is about to become your second hometown. No matter whether the memories you left in these four years are happy, full or sad, you can't help but admit that the influence of these four years of life on you in the future is indelible. However, this important choice is likely to be an instant decision from the beginning. In these four years, you may meet many people, friends, teachers, lovers and even future lovers. Every decision is made by yourself, and it is a choice that you decide. Every time I choose, I can make my future self say "no regrets" whenever I recall!
At the beginning, I worked so hard, regardless of other people's gossip, and endured the pain of lovesickness in both places and the pressure brought by life. In the end, they strengthened their faith, persisted in their original choice and walked together. However, after many years, the days are getting dull. No matter how important a person or thing is, it is like the trace left by time in my heart, and that emotion and passion are long gone. What made the other person's heart beat faster in those days has now become a routine, and the original passion has now become a strange familiarity. As the lyrics say, "It's just that you chose me when you didn't listen to all the rumors, and it's just that you will give up on me now when we are desperate to pursue true love and stick to it." It is also a choice, but the final result is that this choice is not adhered to. The original beauty has vanished, the original heart has vanished, and the original oath has disappeared. It was really touching. Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory! Since you have chosen, why not insist on choosing? Is everything fate or luck?
Along the way, whether accompanied or alone. There is always the same scenery, and then wave to you. Some landscapes are designed for you alone, while others are just for your appreciation. The original choice put me on this road, which naturally has its own scenery. However, the human heart is by no means like water. Seeing the beautiful and charming scenery, I began to be in high spirits. On the one hand, I can't bear the scenery I chose, on the other hand, I don't want to give up the scenery I saw. Therefore, this is not an opportunity to choose, but has become another choice. God is fair after all. The initial happiness and joy didn't last long. Soon, the choice became a contradiction. Constant choice, let happiness slowly turn into trouble. The original calm heart, wholeheartedly insisting on its own landscape choice, has also become hesitant and shaken. Is it the ugliness of human nature, or can't stand the test of God. In short, constant choice does not necessarily bring opportunities, but is often a trap that is ultimately regrettable.
Choice is very important. Choose the right time, meet the right person, then stick to this choice together, enjoy each other's scenery along the way, and finally go to perfection together. What a happy road to life. However, not choosing, not insisting on choosing, and constantly choosing always make this plain road full of thorns; Let the original dazzling and wonderful scenery become bleak; Let the happiness and sureness recalled after many years turn into regret and helplessness. Therefore, in order to return to the starting point of the original choice, there is more feeling of "life is like seeing for the first time" in the world.
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