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Is it a good choice to get married and have children during graduate school?
Get married and have children during graduate school. Can be said to be a good choice. It can also be said that it is a bad choice. I think it should be 50% good and 50% bad.

Look on the bright side. Get married and have children during graduate school. Solved all the problems such as having another child to take maternity leave after work. After all, after graduate school. I'm a little old. If you struggle for a few more years and then have another child. At this time, the age is almost 30 years old. It may also be a career upswing. Then take a vacation and go home to take care of the children. Will seriously affect the development of the cause. After all, 30 years old is just the golden age, and it is also a time of energy. This is the best opportunity for further development. If you miss it. There is less and less room for further growth in the workplace. So relatively speaking. Have a baby early. This problem has been solved. After graduate school. It's serious work. Keep fighting. There is nothing to worry about.

On the bad side. Get married and have children during graduate school. For girls. Very troublesome. You should take at least one year off school. This will affect your study. That's not the main thing. Most importantly. Of course, after the baby is born. If you want to go on to graduate school, then children can't always take care of themselves. It should be entrusted to the care of both elderly people. Children are likely to become left-behind children. This is very unfavorable to children's whole education, body and mind, and growth. After all, you can't take care of your children all day at school. So ... what you do may have an impact on your child's life. There is also the period of graduate school. No economic income. What about after giving birth? Why raise children? Only parents can support the child's upbringing. And raising children is also expensive. If the family environment of both husband and wife is not very good. There is not so much economy to support you little couple. So what should I raise when I have children during graduate school? This is also a key issue. After all, the baby was born. At first, the cost was relatively high. Now the price of milk powder is relatively high. At the same time, children are still using diapers and so on. You choose better and higher quality products first. Then we must have a certain economic foundation. Otherwise these high-quality things. Maybe you can't afford it. I want to use some low-quality ones. I'm sorry again, son Afraid of children getting hurt.

So ... having children during graduate school. Whether it is a good choice or not, I think it can only be said that 50% is good and 50% is bad.