If you want a friend studying in a famous university, especially this friend, or your family, you will often be compared with your friend. No matter what you do, you will eventually compare with your friends inexplicably. Therefore, if you have a friend studying in a famous university, you will feel a little proud, but you will also feel a little inferior and even a little bored.

However, when I heard that my friend was admitted to a famous university, I was still very happy. Although I'm a little disappointed that I didn't do well in the exam, it's also gratifying that my good friend can do well in the exam. However, when your parents, other relatives or neighbors often compare you with him, you may feel that he did so well in the exam and feel much less happy for him. No comparison, no harm. When it often becomes a textbook for your family to educate you, no matter what you do, even if you get good grades, but in the end it is not as good as your friends, then it is a kind of sadness.

In fact, I think when educating children, it is best not to compare with other children, especially to always say that other children are good and criticize your own children. I think this kind of education can easily make children have rebellious or inferiority complex. I think if a child does a good job, what parents should do is to encourage that child, instead of just comparing her with other children.

Well, if you have a friend who goes to a famous university, this friend is not familiar with your parents, or? It's good.