How are parents and friends going to decorate their children's rooms?

Comfortable bed, neatly arranged wardrobe, spacious desk, soundproof door.

In addition to arranging children's rest environment, I believe that parents are most concerned about creating a good learning atmosphere for their children.

In order not to distract the children, parents want to hear nothing at the desk, especially the TV and sound in the living room.

But Kang Ze Nishimura, a famous Japanese educator, bluntly said: "Let me know how my child's grades are from the moment I see the living room at home."

In his eyes, children's grades have little to do with rooms and desks, but are influenced by the living room.

Yasuzawa Nishimura has more than 35 years of teaching experience, and also has a lot of research on pedagogy. He not only has many books on family education, but also serves as a tutor for a long time.

With his help, many students became "dark horses" and were admitted to key private high schools. It can be said that he is a very excellent teacher.

It is also his decades of on-site one-on-one teaching experience, which allows him to sum up the relationship between family pattern and children's performance.

A quiet study is not necessarily the most suitable for children to study.

Many parents have found such a thing, and arranged a very quiet study for their children, which is isolated from all the noise in the living room, and the children will be slower to do their homework in it.

Because of lack of self-discipline, children are more easily distracted in such an environment. They play with pencils for a while and dig the wall for a while. In a word, it is difficult to write two sentences in an hour's homework.

If it is only isolated from the environment, but it does not achieve a good sound insulation effect, then the child's distraction will be more serious.

They will find various excuses to leave the room, drink water, go to the toilet, find something to eat and so on.

Children from families with many children are more suitable for studying in the living room.

Keio University in Japan has studied more than 200 families that learn to dominate, and found that most children with excellent grades like studying in the living room very much. Even if parents go in and out of the room, even talk and chat, and their brothers and sisters are noisy around, they don't want to go back to their small room to study.

In fact, it is mainly because in such an environment, children will not have a strong sense of separation-everyone is busy outside, but I am studying alone in the room.

Unless the child is very determined and naturally easily disturbed, you can try to let the child study with his family.

② When there is a sense of existence, the learning state is better.

Expressing desire is an innate desire of human beings and also an instinct of human beings. This mentality will be very obvious from childhood to adolescence.

When children notice that their every move is being paid attention to by teachers and parents, they will instinctively adjust to the best state and subconsciously feel that they are being "supervised".

Stimulated by expressing desire, their eyes will be more focused and effective. This is why children who are concerned by teachers at school are not easy to relax their studies. Even if the teachers don't say anything, children will take the initiative to keep improving.

When children are easily seen by their parents in the living room or study room, they will feel "supervised" by their parents and have a strong sense of existence at home, and their learning status will naturally be adjusted to the best state.

③ Create a focused environment.

If the elders at home also like reading and writing, or do their own work at home, it is also a good practice for children to study in the living room.

Because when adults are also focused on doing their own things, this focused atmosphere will affect each other. Many middle school students and college students want to study in the library every time they want to review their lessons. That's the reason.

In the library, there are all kinds of sounds of turning pages and endorsing, and there are many distracting books, but students can keep efficient review in it because of the benign influence between them.

Of course, if parents just play mobile phones, watch TV, or chat with melon seeds and play mahjong in the living room, then try to let their children go back to a relatively quiet place to study.

Mom and Dad Box said

Although Nishimura's view is that it may be better for children to study in the living room, I still suggest that parents make more appropriate adjustments according to their own decoration and adult activities.

I believe that most families will put a TV, a coffee table and a sofa in the living room. In this case, the whole family appears in the living room, and the main activity will naturally be entertainment. In this case, it is naturally not suitable for studying in the living room.

If you attach great importance to children's growth and want to create a stronger scholarly atmosphere at home, then the central decoration of the living room can also be replaced with something else, such as a large collection shelf or bookcase.

When a family is in the living room together, they will naturally start studying.

If you want your children to form a good habit of studying at all times, then the best way is to arrange an environment convenient for children to study in every room at home.

The more convenient it is, the easier it is to form habits. Set up a bookshelf in the living room, put a Xinhua dictionary on the table, and order newspapers and magazines on the coffee table. Children can go anywhere and pick up books to read.

In contrast, when there are no books at home and the sofa coffee table is a snack except the remote control, then children will naturally turn on the TV or take out their mobile phones when they walk into the living room.

Environment can change a person's habits. Although sometimes children only watch for a minute or two, it will be of great help to children's reading over time, and more importantly, they will develop the habit of learning at any time.

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