Dear students, I think among these respondents, I am the most suitable to answer your question. Because my previous personality is very similar to yours, and I also encountered the same problem. At that time, I handled it in a similar way to you. Instead, I gained a lot of friends after class. But in any case, a vicious interpersonal field has been formed around. People are social animals, especially at school, it is difficult to choose what kind of people to get along with. Escape is not the way, it will have a negative impact on all aspects of yourself. I believe you came to seek the answer because you are dissatisfied and confused about the status quo.

Analysis: 1, you are strong and know what you want, so although you are introverted on the surface and sensitive on the inside, you will still overcome your fears and strive to improve and express yourself. 2, you don't know enough about others, don't understand the relationship between people, and lack the ability to grasp the overall situation (now you can understand, because you haven't been out of high school campus for a long time, and you don't have much knowledge and experience, but I'm glad you like going to the library. )。 Sometimes it may be improper handling, which makes people misunderstand you and gives the villain an opportunity. You are kind, which is your most precious and powerful ability. Please keep this nature forever. 4. You have a lot on your mind, but you don't know how to express it, how to share it, and how to properly integrate into the present reality. You are worried about the influence of others on it. If you can't find the balance point, or the current solution, you keep it deep in your heart, or postpone it.

Tell you the solution: 1, "Read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road" is by no means an empty talk or a cliche. It can solve all your problems. In other words, master enough knowledge according to your own situation, put it into practice, apply what you have learned, solve your own problems first, and then develop yourself. If you are not useful and powerful enough, not only do others not need you to look down on you, I believe that even you don't like yourself like this. 2. "Water is good for all things and does not dispute", "Water is not self-generating, so it can live forever; Not because of selflessness, but because of selfishness. " This is the wisdom you need to learn. Even if you have a Qian Qian knot in your heart, if you really want to release your mind, then you can only learn to be calm and peaceful.

You are lucky to encounter these problems in your freshman year. Stick to your own pursuit and be kind to others at all times. When this stage is over, you will gain strength and wisdom.

I'd like to help you, but because of the time, I can only make a general statement from my personal point of view. Please come and ask me if you need to communicate.