This sentence comes from an online song "The Mistakes of Teenagers", and one of the lyrics is "Yibin, a teenager, I miss you every day". Later, this sentence was used by netizens to ridicule those who like to lick others, referring to those who do things and act without dignity and kneel down to lick others.
Why are there "white eyes"?
You are too utilitarian when dealing with others.
Always trying to get benefits from others will lead to your abnormal mentality, so that your "inferiority complex" will be exposed. According to my observation of the workplace, when a person associates with you with a utilitarian heart, his inferiority complex is discovered inadvertently. When you find him associating with you with a utilitarian heart, you immediately want to leave him; When you are ready to stay away from these people, their inferiority and smallness are immediately exposed.
You are too weak. In front of the strong, you feel too inferior.
In the workplace, there are also such people who seem to be very powerful, but they are actually very inferior. For example, those who yell at you all day, the louder his voice, the more inferior he is. He just wants to give in to others with his loud voice or momentum. But when this loud voice doesn't work, his inner bottom line collapses instantly, and his inferiority will be exposed. But the most terrible thing in the workplace is not those with loud voices, but those who are "tofu mouth and knife heart" and talk sweet all day.
What can I do to be humble in the workplace?
Calm down, calm down.
Don't overestimate others and don't underestimate yourself. Be sure to remember that all aura comes from self-confidence, and all self-confidence comes from your strong heart. A truly powerful person never loses his temper or complains, but calmly puts forward his own solution to the problem.
Don't associate with utilitarianism.
In order to satisfy their own utilitarian heart, they will naturally cater to others against their will. When you cater to others against your will, your servility will be exposed and you will naturally be despised or looked down upon. Nowadays, people in the workplace are smarter than one. When you associate with others with a utilitarian heart, others will judge you instantly.
Only by overcoming your own desires and interacting with others without utility can you be confident! People will respect you and treat you as a friend in their circle.