When I was a child, every time I got sick, I just stayed at home. With the reason of being sick, I can play all the things I can't play, and I don't have to go to school, or even just daydream in bed and think nothing.

However, to my surprise, my sister is always stupidly dragging her tired body and still sitting at her desk studying hard, even though she is ill.

Several times, I thought it was because her brain was burnt out that she would do such a foolish thing, leaving her relaxed and happy and burying herself in a sea of books to study hard.

But a few years later, when she was admitted to the first choice university, I was shocked that she was not stupid.

Yu, the founder of New Oriental, said: The most important thing for a person to realize his dream is to have the following two conditions: courage and action.

That's what you want to get into a good school. If you are lazy every day, it is just a fantasy to get into the exam.

02

We often see a lot of chicken soup to tell you how important self-discipline is, how perfect a self-disciplined life is, and how excellent a self-disciplined person is. ...

Maybe you will feel something when you meet for the first time, and then you don't even want to order.

But I have to say that if you want to realize your wish, you must learn self-discipline.

You despise it because you can't do it, and you don't order it because you are afraid of persistence.

Roman Roland said: the most terrible enemy is that there is no firm belief.

Because I dare not face it directly, I simply disappeared.

But almost everyone knows that persistence is the key to success.

As Ovid, an ancient Roman poet, said: Patience and persistence are painful things, but they can gradually bring you benefits.

After coming for half a year, the word "persistence" impressed me the most.

As a writer, writing requires a lot of self-discipline. You must study day after day, year after year, and then when you get up every morning, you must start racking your brains to think about the philosophy of life and the changes in the world. You feel deeply.

There are too many things to write and too many things not to write in life, but whether you can write or not, it is nonsense not to start writing.

Many people told me at the beginning: I will win the signing author after six months, and then there will be no new articles on his homepage within three months.

Too often, we are used to promises and boasting, but few people really persevere in doing one thing.

Just like when you were a child, how many times did you promise your parents, and then you broke your word? How many times have you decided to study hard and then become lazy? How many times have you done something well and then gave up?

How many times have we promised ourselves not to say or do anything, but simply gave up because we couldn't do it?

It is well said in Pattern that your attitude determines your road to success.

Only by doing what you should do first can you do what you want to do.

03

The ancients said: "A person's wisdom is better than birds, so he can catch birds;" A person's wisdom is better than that of wild animals, and he can hunt wild animals; If a person is smarter than others, he can gain others' obedience. "

A China student studying fashion design, in order to enter the world-famous ZARA company, took new york Library as his home, spent 5-6 hours a day for a whole year, and read all the new fashions and magazines published by ZARA for a whole year. While reading them in detail, he also cut and pasted all the designs that shine at the moment into his notebook, but he just stuffed all the fashions into his knowledge circle.

We all know that nothing in life is easy to get. Whether you like it or not, sometimes you just have to be self-disciplined, be an ascetic and do things you don't want to do.

Because only in this way can you finally do what you really want to do.

When you can conquer yourself, you can surpass yourself; When you can surpass yourself, what can't you do?

04

Some people say that the saddest thing about a person is not that he lost, but that he could have won.

If you have a desire to achieve by any means, you will never fail, because your "desire" is far stronger than your "desire". How can you stop there?

I am a handsome rabbit, and my writing journey continues. I think in the next six months, you will see a better me.