I don't know what kind of images will come to your mind when you talk about rape or sexual harassment. Is it a sloppy uncle, with a beautiful young girl, or with uncomfortable physical contact? In fact, sexual harassment may be heterosexual or homosexual. He may be a young man or an old man. It may happen in remote and uninhabited places, and it is more likely to happen in buses, offices, libraries and even at home. He may be a rude gesture to you, a word that makes you uncomfortable, or a picture with sexual meaning.
A few days ago, there was one
The girl who went to the sex education summer camp told me that she once met an uncle on her way home at night. Uncle suddenly took off his pants in front of him and smiled maliciously. What do you think that girl will do? She didn't scream, didn't turn and run away, but calmly went home as if she didn't see it. When she got home, she told her mother about it, and then their mother and daughter began to inform their teachers, classmates and friends, telling them not to be afraid if they met us, because the more afraid and nervous we were, the more excited they became, which reminded me of this.
Another junior high school girl, let's just call her Xiao Fang and Xiao Fang. She used to walk alone by the river. The same experience happened. A man exposed his nakedness in front of him. Xiao Fang trembled with fear. She was very scared. She is afraid that she will be further hurt. This incident became a shadow in Xiao Fang's heart and a nightmare in her later life. For a long time, she could only walk to the river. I will think of what happened that day. Xiao Fang is the "me" in junior high school, that is, the "me" who has not received sex education. Until now, as long as I close my eyes, I will think of that summer evening and the fear in my heart at that time;
If educating children to be kind and not to hurt others is an education, then educating children to protect themselves from being hurt by others is more like the premise of everything. We should let the children know that the kind grandfather is around, but he can't touch your body at will. Teachers who teach and educate people are worthy of respect, but you can't abuse and tease pregnant women who are inconvenient to move. She needs help, but she also needs to evaluate her ability. Don't send her home easily;
Many parents told me that children are too young to need sex education. Sex education will teach my children bad, but it is never sex education, it is the wrong way of education. I believe many children have asked such questions. where i was from? I found it in the garbage, jumped out of a crack in the stone and fell from the sky, but there was no correct answer. One girl even said in despair, "I am pregnant, and my boyfriend broke up with me. I will never get married again in my life because I am not a virgin." I wonder why I have this idea. It turned out that her father told her that she was pregnant when she was studying. I would rather be killed than your shameless daughter. My parents avoid talking about sex. Their parents are a scourge of sex. It is this lack of education that makes many children unaware that they may be hurt.
Therefore, there is no way to protect themselves, and good sex education will tell children all the knowledge about sex, understand that there are different risks behind each choice, and have the ability to be responsible for their own choices. More importantly;
Let them understand the three principles of sex: autonomy, health and responsibility;
China needs sex education, and China needs a little malicious education. A child with cotton candy can't face the world alone without the protection of his parents. Really responsible parents should give their children armor and tell them that the outside world is wonderful, but they will also encounter storms. I hope you have beautiful eyes and more ability to defend beauty. Thank you!