Family rules refer to the code of conduct stipulated by a family, which is generally passed down by a family to educate and regulate future generations. It is also called family law. The so-called "national laws, family rules" means that a country has national laws and a family has family rules; The rules of this family are equivalent to the laws of the country. Mencius said, "If you don't obey the rules, you can't be Fiona Fang". If a family wants to flourish, it must know how to behave. Family members who violate family rules will be punished like citizens who violate the law.
Good boy, ten new rules of family rules
1
Speak respectfully to your parents.
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A cordial tone.
2.
Do your best.
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Don't disturb your parents
.
3.
Talk to your parents when you go to school.
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See you again.
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Go home from school and ask your parents
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Say I'm back
4.
Say hello to your parents when you leave home and tell them where to go, what to do and when to come back.
5.
When eating, you should wait for your parents and the whole family to eat together. Sit up straight and be polite.
6.
When parents go home, they should pour tea for their parents and let them have a good rest.
7.
Remember parents' birthdays, congratulate them and do something to make them happy.
8.
Parents should always greet when they are uncomfortable, and bring water medicine to their parents when they are sick.
9.
In life, I don't compare with students with superior conditions, nor do I put forward high material requirements for my parents.
10.
Finish your homework carefully and try your best to help your parents do the housework within their power.
President barack obama gave himself less than two.
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My 18-year-old daughter made several family rules:
1
There should be no unreasonable complaints, quarrels or annoying jokes.
2
Be sure to make the bed, not just look neat.
three
Do your own thing, such as making cereal or pouring milk, folding the quilt, setting the alarm clock, and yourself.
Get up and get dressed.
four
Keep the toy room clean.
five
Help parents share housework every week.
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Dollars.
six
Every birthday or Christmas, there are no luxurious gifts and gorgeous parties.
seven
, every night
eight
main points
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Lights out on time.
eight
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Arrange a full after-school life:
Maria dances,
Rehearsal,
Play the piano,
Play tennis,
play football
;
Sasha does gymnastics,
Play the piano, tennis and tap dance.
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Idyllization is not allowed.
Obama's family rules seem simple,
Trivial,
But the operability is very strong,
Every article contains profound meanings.
Reflect
Father's kindness. He hopes to cultivate his daughter into a self-reliant, educated, responsible and reasonable person through these family rules.
Love labor,
Don't envy vanity,
A moderate person.
Such people are popular everywhere,
And the closest to success.
People, as employees, will be a responsible, hard-working and trustworthy excellent employee, while as bosses, they will abide by the law and strive for perfection.
An excellent boss who is smart, strong and reasonable.
As the saying goes, habit becomes nature,
Obama's family rules start with cultivating habits.
The child is a blank sheet of paper,
Teach him anything.
Learn what,
Cultivating good habits will benefit him for life.
Obama's family rules,
No better than other family rules,
nor
Signs of cultivating gifted children,
But every rule in his family revolves around how to make children form good habits.
Like the first one.
Ertiao
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Be sure to make the bed, not just look neat.
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Is to cultivate children's habit of doing things seriously.
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In the world; After all, after all
Afraid is afraid of being serious.
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,
Due to serious habits,
There is nothing wrong with it.
Another example is article 6.
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Every birthday or
At Christmas, there are no extravagant gifts and gorgeous parties.
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Is to cultivate children's habit of living frugally. Obama himself
Is growing up in a difficult environment,
He knows that if a person has the habit of living frugally,
No matter how difficult it is.
Can survive in the living environment,
Based on,
Development.
As a civilian president,
I may not be able to leave too much material for my children.
However, wealth, a frugal lifestyle deliberately cultivated since childhood, has remained ... >>
Question 2: What is the role of family style and family precepts in contemporary socialist values? Cultivating and practicing socialist core values is a long-term and arduous systematic project. We should start from an early age, broaden channels and ways, enrich carriers, and let people receive education in a subtle way and consciously practice it. Family style, as an important form of China's traditional culture inheritance, contains rich contents of moral quality education and values cultivation, and should be an important carrier to carry out propaganda and education on socialist core values and promote their practice.
First, family style is the carrier of traditional culture inheritance, and it is also an important carrier of socialist values publicity and education.
Simply put, family life style and cultural atmosphere constitute family style. Family style is the ethos, style and fashion of a family. As the most basic way of traditional moral education, the most basic requirement of family education is self-cultivation, and this goal is not simply indoctrination, but to realize the influence on people through moral and cultural forms including family style. Chinese excellent traditional culture accumulates the deepest spiritual pursuit of the Han nationality, contains the most fundamental spiritual genes of the Han nationality, represents the unique spiritual identity of the Han nationality, and is a rich nourishment for the continuous development and growth of the Han nationality. The reason why China traditional culture has played such a powerful role lies not only in its rich spiritual connotation and value pursuit, but also in the unity of nationality and popularization of China culture, especially in the unity of family, country and the world at the level of values, that is, the so-called self-cultivation, family harmony, governing the country and leveling the world. Of course, family education, which has been inherited from feudal society for more than two thousand years, is very rich in content, including the most basic cultivation requirements, the inheritance of social ethics and mainstream values. Positive factors and negative influences coexist, which requires critical inheritance. Although it has been over 100 years since the end of feudal society, the inheritance of family style on moral culture has not and cannot be eliminated with the gradual disappearance of feudal culture, but should be updated with the prosperity and development of socialist culture as an important carrier to inherit new culture, carry forward socialist morality and publicize and convey socialist core values. In fact, most families in China are actually influenced by Confucian culture, that is, diligence and thrift, studious and enterprising ... these constitute the basic content of family style. The connotation of traditional family education in China will change with the times, but the core values will not change. The society is changing, and the family style is also advancing with the times, becoming more open, free, healthy and progressive. In modern society, which has been divided into small family units, promoting good traditional family style and family education can subtly convey social norms, and social atmosphere will naturally be improved.
Second, the advantages of family style as an important carrier to cultivate and practice core values
Cultivating and practicing socialist core values with family style as the carrier has the following advantages: First, it can overcome the disadvantages of value education, and truly take people in real life as the foundation and the cultivation of their personality and moral quality as the starting point, which is easy to make them receive education under the influence of edification and infection, resulting in * * *. Secondly, cultivating and practicing socialist core values with family style as the carrier can make values education vivid, infectious and inspiring. At present, although we can see that some families have unhealthy family style, most families have inherited excellent family virtues and formed a positive family style, especially some plain and infectious family precepts, which have become important spiritual food for children's growth and development, family harmony and neighborhood unity and mutual assistance. This family style naturally permeates the core values of society and is infectious, friendly and enlightening. Finally, cultivating and practicing socialist core values with family style as the carrier can effectively overcome the "fault" problem of value understanding and education and realize its continuity and durability. On the one hand, in recent years, in the process of promoting the popularization of the socialist core value system, we sometimes see some people's understanding of the core values is biased, which separates the socialist core values from the traditional values, which is not conducive to the in-depth development of publicity and education; On the other hand, we can see that there are often some differences in values among grandparents, parents and children in real family education, which is objective and inevitable. However, the existence of this situation has also brought about mutual incomprehension and even fierce conflicts. Especially for the younger generation, the existence of ignoring family responsibilities and gnawing at the old has something to do with the weakening of educational attraction under the influence of family style. Therefore, by highlighting the important position and role of family style as an important carrier and channel of core values education, we can enhance the understanding between different generations and provide an important foundation for the cultivation and practice of social core values.
Third, the cultivation and practice of inheriting socialist core values with family style ... >>
Question 3: What do family precepts mean? Family precepts teach children and grandchildren to live in the world and manage their families.
Family instruction is an important part of China's traditional culture and genealogy, which has played an important role in personal cultivation and family planning in the history of China.
In ancient times, human society experienced the changes of clans, clans and families. However, these are the cornerstones of a country.
Family instruction can play a role in stabilizing social order when the country is unstable and the national laws are unclear. Because, in order to maintain the necessary legal system, the family has drawn up a certain code of conduct to restrain the people in the family, which is the earliest origin of family discipline.
Since the early Han Dynasty, family instruction works have gradually become rich and colorful with the evolution of dynasties. Genealogy records many famous sayings and aphorisms about being a parent, which has become a good strategy to manage the family and a model of "self-cultivation" and "keeping the family in order". For example, the idea of "a porridge and a meal, when thinking is hard-won" still has positive significance today. In the genealogy, there are many detailed family instructions and rules. For future generations to follow. Among them, the most famous family instructions, such as Yan's Family Instructions and Zhu's Family Instructions, are widely known so far.
The reason why family precepts are valued by the world is mainly to advocate loyalty, filial piety and righteousness, and to teach etiquette and ethics. In addition, what is advocated and what is forbidden is also an important content in family law, such as "frugality should be respected" and "evil witches should be banned".
Family style refers to the traditional fashion of a family or family. In other words, a family's lifestyle and cultural atmosphere constitute a family style. As the name implies, family style is the ethos, style and fashion of a family. In other words, when a family's family rules and family precepts form a family's public behavior habits, it constitutes a family style, which is also a family or a family's family style culture. Genealogy is a tool to carry family culture, and Internet genealogy is a new generation tool to carry family culture.
Question 4: What do family traditions and family precepts mean respectively? Family style is a family cultural style passed down from generation to generation, which reflects the spiritual outlook, moral quality, aesthetic style and overall temperament of family members. The formation of family style is often that a certain person in a family chain is outstanding and highly respected by other family members. His words and deeds become the source of family style, and then through the relay of family generations abiding by ancestral teachings, the charm is passed down from generation to generation, and a family has formed a distinct moral concept and aesthetic style.
Family style is very important for family inheritance. Without an honest family style, it is impossible to keep a family from falling apart. A family with identity is cohesive. Obviously, this sense of identity cannot be family property, because property is often divided up and eventually exhausted. There is only one thing that all family members can share, which will not decrease but increase in value-that is, the "family style" that all family members are proud of. Family style is an essential element of an influential and prestigious family and the core value of a family.
Family style is often reflected in the family rules and regulations that ancestors have high hopes for. These family rules have many names in China: "family rules", "family rules" and "family instructions". In a word, it is "family education". Invisible family style must rely on tangible family education to spread and carry forward.
Family instruction refers to the instructions for future generations to live in the world and manage their families.
Since the early Han Dynasty, family instruction works have gradually become rich and colorful with the evolution of dynasties. Genealogy records many famous sayings and aphorisms about being a parent, which has become a good strategy to manage the family and a model of "self-cultivation" and "keeping the family in order". For example, the idea of "a porridge and a meal, when thinking is hard-won" still has positive significance today. In the genealogy, there are many detailed family instructions and rules. For future generations to follow. Among them, the most famous family instructions, such as Yan's Family Instructions and Zhu's Family Instructions, are widely known so far.
The reason why family precepts are valued by the world is mainly to advocate loyalty, filial piety and righteousness, and to teach etiquette and ethics. In addition, what is advocated and what is forbidden is also an important content in family law, such as "frugality should be respected" and "evil witches should be banned".
In short, every family has different family rules and family instructions. Common genealogies generally include the following:
First, pay attention to family law and national law
2. Harmonious families and villages
Step 3 honor your elders
4. Conform to ethical norms and correct the name.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) Ancestor Sacrifice and Grave Sacrifice Procedure
Step 6 cultivate one's morality
Example:
Quoted from Zeng Guofan's family instructions
Eight characters: brothers, sons and nephews at home, but remember grandpa's eight characters and say: test, treasure, morning, sweep, book, vegetable, fish, pig.
Eight books: There are still eight books in my diary, which say: reading is based on exegesis, writing poetry is based on tone, caring for relatives is based on gaining goodwill, keeping in good health is based on not talking nonsense, staying at home is based on not talking nonsense, being an official is based on not asking for money, and marching is based on not disturbing people. These eight books are all based on experience, and I will teach my sons and nephews to keep them in mind. No matter the chaos in the world or the wealth of the family, as long as they can keep the eight books of Xinggang and the other eight books, they will always be regarded as excellent families.
Twelve-style self-cultivation:
1, main aspects: neat and serious, always careless. When there is nothing, the heart is in the cavity; When doing things, be single-minded and not miscellaneous, such as rising day by day.
2.* * *: At any time every day, in * * half an hour, you can feel the kindness of quiet sun, and you are in the right place, such as Ding Town.
3, get up early: wake up when you wake up, don't fall in love when you wake up.
4, reading is not the only thing: if you don't finish reading a book, don't read his book, read the east and the west, follow the outside world, and the daily rate is ten leaves.
5, reading history: C subscribes to twenty-three histories and reads ten leaves a day, although some things are uninterrupted.
6, be careful: attention is the first time.
7. Nourish qi: You can say something to the people in the gas storage.
8. Protect yourself: frugality and abstinence will always be a disease.
9. God knows his death: I will say one in every diary. It can be divided into virtue, knowledge, economy and art.
10, don't forget the month: write a few poems every month to test the accumulated amount and the prosperity of qi. You can't worry blindly, it's the easiest to drown your heart.
1 1. Writing: Write for half an hour after breakfast. The place where pen and ink entertain is your homework. If you don't leave it to tomorrow, the more you accumulate, the harder it will be.
12, staying at home at night: exhausted, constantly cutting and disorderly ... >>
Question 5: What influence did the family education, family style and family instruction in ancient etiquette have on a family? Family education, family style, family education?
Just like a kind of cohesion can unite families.
Otherwise, it will be like a mess.
Sooner or later, the family will be ruined.
Question 6: What is the significance of cultivating and inheriting a good family style? At present, some outstanding problems in the ideological and moral field in China are directly related to the lack of attention to family style. Today, the proposal of family style has grasped the social focus of the public and the core of China culture, which has a strong realistic pertinence.
Since CCTV launched an exclusive interview on family style
Since then, family style has become an important topic for people to discuss after dinner. What is family style? Family style belongs to the category of morality and is the inheritance of the excellent moral quality of the Chinese nation in the family. Family is an important cell of society. Only when the family style is good can the social atmosphere be good and the country be harmonious and stable. Every family should take the socialist core values as the content and actively cultivate and inherit a good family style.
Cultivating and inheriting a good family style requires good family rules to regulate it. As the saying goes, there is no Fiona Fang without rules. So is the family. The main form of family rules is family training, which is expressed by the elders in the family in written or oral form, and puts forward normative requirements for the moral behavior of family members as a follow-up from generation to generation. For example, the famous Zhu Jiaxun, Yan Jiaxun and Zeng Guopan's family instructions are still widely circulated. With the development of society, all families with a certain cultural literacy should encourage their elders to give family instructions to their descendants in written form. Family guidance can be simple or complex, and should be tailored for families.
Jane only pays attention to one aspect of family style. For example, the elder of Liu Fuxing, a good man in Cangzhou and a retired cadre of Huanghua City Procuratorate, left a family motto, "Don't repay kindness, save lives without leaving a name", which has been passed down from generation to generation. Diverse
It is to put forward various requirements for the younger generation, involving ideals and beliefs, self-cultivation, honesty and trustworthiness, diligence and housekeeping, generosity, respect for the elderly and love for the young, and helping others. With family training, there will be follow-up. The elders will take this as the educational content and the younger generation will take this as the behavioral constraint, and the good family style will continue to be passed down.
Cultivating and inheriting a good family style requires a good tutor to guide it. Only by doing a good job in family education can family virtues and social morality enter the minds and hearts of family members and become conscious actions. The elders in the family should shoulder the heavy responsibility of family education. The form of education is not unique. You can take advantage of holidays, especially the Spring Festival, when the whole family get together and have a family meeting to tell the whole family how to behave and how to strive to be a moral model. You can explain what you should or should not do about what happened to your family or members, and learn from it. Sometimes, we can also use some things that happen in society to express our views and educate the younger generation what to learn and understand from them. Family education should be regular, timely, targeted and suitable for family members.
Cultivating and inheriting a good family style requires good parental behavior to demonstrate. Family is everyone's first school and a lifelong school. Everyone learns to be a man and do things, mostly from learning the behavior of their parents. As the head of a family, we should first become a practitioner of good family rules and set an example for the younger generation with our good moral behavior. Only in this way can we be qualified to educate the next generation, and the next generation can be influenced by a good family style in a subtle way. Every parent should be strict with himself, and he must do what he asks his younger generation to do first; If you ask your junior not to do something, you should not do it first. Democracy should also be advocated in the family, and the elders should be allowed to criticize if they do something against morality. This is a warning to themselves and an experience for the younger generation to distinguish right from wrong. A good family style needs democracy, and only democracy can have a good family style.
Cultivating and inheriting a good family style requires the guidance of the party Committee and the organization of * * *. Attaching importance to the construction of family style means attaching importance to the construction of social style and folk customs Party committees at all levels and * * * should take family style construction as an important position to cultivate and practice socialist core values. It is necessary to publicize the importance, main contents and practices of family style construction through media publicity, holding parent schools and exchanging experiences. To choose
Five good families, a good daughter-in-law, a good mother-in-law, and a model of respecting the elderly.
And so on, set an example, carry forward a good family style and promote the construction of family style. It is necessary to mobilize party member cadres to take the lead in building a good family style, set an example, set an example first, and inspire the masses and lead new social trends by stressing character, rectifying family style and setting an example.
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Question 7: What are the family rules and customs? Family style, family rules, family training.
First, family style is a family tradition, norms and customs. The past refers to the moral principles and ways of treating people handed down from generation to generation by a family or clan.
Law. Family style is an example for the older generation to give to the next generation, and it depends on their own behavior to influence the next generation.
Hard-working, filial, friendly, patient, willing, law-abiding.
Diligent housekeeping, live in harmony.
Filial piety, courtesy, kindness, diligence and frugality.
Second, family rules are the behavioral norms of ancestors towards family members. Generally, it is the education and norms passed down by a family.
The offspring code is also called family law.
1
What can be done should be done independently, and what can be done today should not be sloppy or dependent on parents.
Don't delay without reason.
2
Eat well, ensure comprehensive nutrition, and don't be picky about food, anorexia and eat less.
three
Keep reading every day.
2
When we are young, we should insist on preparing carefully before class, listening carefully in class, taking detailed notes, and after class.
Review carefully and complete the learning tasks of all subjects.
four
To strengthen physical exercise and enhance physical fitness, the daily exercise should not be less than 1 hour (the exercise can be appropriately increased in winter and summer vacations).
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Don't be lazy, don't be casual, and don't just do your favorite sports.
five
Family dining should abide by family rules, eat and sit, be polite to guests, and never ignore parents, elders and guests.
People should not eat and play at the same time, and should not waste food.
six
We should share our parents' worries as much as possible, don't ignore their feelings, and actively do something for them.
Don't refuse, don't talk about conditions.
seven
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filial piety ,
Know how to be grateful,
Cherish a happy life,
Listen to your parents' instructions,
Say hello to your parents when you go out and enter the door.
Don't be ungrateful, don't contradict your parents, and don't make trouble without reason.
eight
Learn to be grateful, grateful to those parents who are selfless and silently dedicated, and grateful to all those who care, love and support.
People who have helped us,
We should cherish everything that is true, good and beautiful in society and nature.
Hate hypocrisy,
An ugly and bad appearance.
Like, but not without difference, good and evil.
nine
Respect teachers, greet teachers, elders and acquaintances actively and enthusiastically, and don't turn a blind eye and avoid seeing them.
10
We should unite our classmates, have love and compassion, and don't bully the weak, discriminate against the weak and laugh at the disabled.
Or students with poor grades.
1 1
Sincere, modest and down-to-earth.
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No cheating, no ego.
12
In public places such as theaters, shopping malls, venues, banquets, etc., you should keep your manners elegant, talk appropriately, and don't make any noise.
Wow, no frolicking.
13
Be ambitious, persevere, forge ahead and strive for self-improvement. Don't aim too high and don't slack off.
Don't give up easily.
14
You should finish the homework assigned by the teacher and the learning tasks assigned by your parents on time, and you can't be careless.
Italian, scrawled, do not do less or excuse not to do, delay, play after finishing homework, except weekends and holidays.
Don't watch TV (except the news broadcast at 7 pm)
Play computer.
The contents specified in this specification must be faithfully performed. If there is any violation, it will be reminded and approved according to the lighter circumstances.
Comments,
Warning,
Think about it,
Written review,
Copy text,
Do housework,
Restrict some family freedoms and rights,
Appropriate corporal punishment, etc.
Third, family training refers to teaching children and grandchildren to live in the world and run a family.
expression
one
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Good is a good thing, and evil is a disaster. Don't do it because of small goodness, and don't do it because of small evils. These four languages, when
Obey for life.
two
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Act peacefully, not in a hurry; Speak honestly and don't cheat others.
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Question 8: What are family style, family rules and family precepts? Refers to the traditional fashion and the same family style of a family or clan.
Family rules, a code of conduct stipulated by a family, are generally the norms passed down by a family to educate and regulate future generations. It is also called family law.
Family instruction refers to the instructions for future generations to live in the world and manage their families.
Question 9: I said our family motto is 100. When it comes to family style, family training and family education, I always think it is a very serious topic. As far as my family is concerned, I will talk about it briefly.
Family style is family rules, and it is the ethos of a family. In our family, it is reflected in filial piety. Mom and dad often say, "Filial piety comes first." Filial piety, filial piety to elders, is to make them happy as much as possible. At home, we should all listen carefully to what grandparents say. Even if they are wrong, we can't blame them face to face. We should tell them quietly in a way that they can accept. Not talking back to your elders is also a sign of filial piety. We children must listen to our elders and let us do something at once, and we can't put it off. Our family style is still reflected in the dining table. The whole family has dinner together. If the elders don't move chopsticks, we children must not eat first. We didn't start eating together until grandparents, grandparents and parents came. Unconsciously, this has become a habit. Of course, this is a good habit.
Family precepts, as interpreted in the dictionary, refer to instructions for consulting children to live in the world and manage their families. Obviously, family style plays a very important role in people's growth. My mother often teaches me that the most basic quality of being a man is honesty. So, I think my family motto is "honesty-oriented". In life, there are many times when we lie. For example, if I don't do well in the exam, I will say that my classmates didn't do well in the exam, so as to escape the discipline of my parents. As everyone knows, this will only harm yourself. When I was very young, my mother told me that it doesn't matter if I do something wrong. If I lie to excuse myself, this lie is worse than doing something wrong 100 times. I lied to my parents a lot, and in the end my parents gave me a good beating. Sometimes my parents won't hit me when I do something wrong. According to the seriousness of the matter, I should either be reasonable or be more strict in education. Another thing is that my mother made me keep my word. One word she often uses is "hitting the floor", which tells me that I should be able to do what I say. Mom said, I am a boy, and I should dare to bear my words and deeds. Whatever you do, think about the consequences before you do it. Even if you make a mistake, you should dare to bear it yourself.
Tutor, it feels a bit like my family style. The dictionary says that the focus of family education is moral etiquette. In our life, we often hear adults say that their children are really good and have a tutor. I think tutoring is an education that parents give their children. With the help and guidance of parents, it is a good reflection of children. My parents taught me to be polite and take the initiative to greet my elders and neighbors. Not only did they educate me in this way, but they also did it themselves. When grandma's friends come to visit at home, mom is always busy in the kitchen, so grandma can chat with her friends and eat snacks. I also heard grandma's friends boast that her mother is a good girl and has a good tutor. At this moment, I can see the proud expression on her face. I wonder how people praised her as a mother, and how can grandma be so proud? Later, I gradually realized that boasting that children have a tutor is actually appreciating their parents' education. On holidays, family gatherings, relatives and friends also praised me for my special tutor. At this moment, my parents are also very proud. Tutoring is also an example for parents. Usually, adults are role models for children.
Family style, family training and family education have the same effect. Every family has its own different embodiment. Good family style, family education and family training require the joint efforts of everyone in the family, and the bad aspects should be corrected in time, and the good aspects should continue.
Question 10: What are the flawless jade in family style, family rules and family instructions that can be used as national instruments? The son of filial piety can be Guoxin. Song? Lin Bu's "Peace of Mind"
If you are not strict, you can't do it. -Green? Cao Xueqin's Dream of Red Mansions
The prosperity of mankind must be created by husband and wife. -"Collected Works of Confucius"? Converter "
Those who accumulate widely will harm their children and grandchildren; Too much debauchery, one axe lost his life. Song? Lin Bu's "Peace of Mind"
The word "heirloom" means reading and ploughing, and the word "rich" means frugality and diligence. -"ancient and modern book integration? family pattern
A family, baking like a treasure, black sheep, money like grass. -Green? Shi Tianji's heirloom
I have to keep studying until today, so don't give up your youth lightly. Song? There are no virtuous fathers and brothers in Lu You's Children in the City, and there are no strict teachers and friends outside, but few of them can succeed. Song? Lv Gongzhu
Sun Cai Yi, a man's son, left my children innocent. -Liang Shu? Biography of Zhou She Xu Mian
Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, so don't be their cattle and horses. -Yuan? Anonymous "Yu Qiao Ji"
Children are people who create industries, not people who inherit them. -Tao Xingzhi, "How to Choose Books"
Anyone who doesn't love himself really lacks the qualification to be a father. -Lu Xun, "How Can We Be Fathers Now"
Wealth is meaningless, and woe to the family. -"ancient and modern book integration? family pattern
Don't be suspicious, don't listen to alienating language, don't do things that identify with each other, and don't take advantage of the public. -"ancient and modern book integration? family pattern
Nine times out of ten, those who plan wealth for their children and grandchildren will be defeated. Song? Lin Bu's "Peace of Mind"