About the author: jane nelsen, an outstanding American psychologist and educator, is the founder of American Positive Correction Association.
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Raising a child is a top priority in life, but how to educate a child is useful without hurting him?
Then I have to talk about the book Positive Discipline, which is a discipline method that neither punishes nor condones children.
This book explains the reasons behind children's bad behavior with Adler's psychological principle, and puts forward a new view that "the children who hate most are often the children who need love most". This is because children's bad behaviors have their wrong ideas and behavioral purposes, but children don't realize that they need the approval of adults to help them change.
This book focuses on teaching children what to do and solving problems. Children are active participants in the whole process, not passive recipients.
2. "You are the best toy for children."
Author: kimberly Brain, the earliest child education expert who proposed "emotional guidance education", a registered family and child psychotherapist, and a mother of two children. She often gives lectures on early childhood brain development and positive discipline strategies at UCLA, and serves as the social promotion director of early childhood mental health promotion activities sponsored by SAMHSA Branch of the US Department of Health and Human Services.
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Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Compared with toys and TV, what children need most is you. What they really value is the happy time with you, which needs to be valued, the time when they are alone with their parents and the need to establish a lifelong intimate relationship with their parents!
Control, laissez-faire, bribery and threats are all common methods used by parents. These different types of education methods may lead children to express their feelings and communication in the wrong way, so that they can't establish the intimate relationship between parents and children, and children can't get the sense of belonging and security brought by family relations.
The educational method of emotional guidance put forward in this book is more caring. Emotional-oriented parents will take these dilemmas as a good opportunity to understand their children's inner world, give sympathy and understanding to their children's emotions, thus enhancing parent-child relationship in communication, thus improving their emotional intelligence and communication skills, and laying the most favorable foundation for their future growth.
3. "How to say that children are willing to learn"
Author: Adele Faber, Master of Education, new york University, who has been teaching in new york High School for 8 years, is an internationally renowned expert in parent-child communication. Elaine Mazlisch, a professional painter and composer, is an internationally renowned expert in parent-child communication. Both authors studied under Dr. Heim Guinot, a famous child psychologist, and were listed in the American Who's Who.
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This book was rated as "the best family education book of the year" by American children's magazine. It is one of the best-selling family education books in the world and has changed the way countless families get along.
The author of this book gives a set of practical methods to encourage children to carry out self-supervision, self-discipline and love learning, so that children can