Not long ago, a private kindergarten opened near my best friend's house. The facilities of private kindergartens are much better than those of public kindergartens: there are robots in schools, binoculars for children, studios and delicious food. Most importantly, private kindergartens can look after children on their mobile phones, which is not far from home and the tuition is more expensive than public kindergartens. My best friend hesitated, and finally sent his son to a private kindergarten, because he felt that his son learned more in private kindergartens than in public kindergartens.

Later I told my best friend that private kindergartens were different. The small class began to learn English, and then began to learn English songs. Children in large classes even began to learn addition and subtraction. They sent their son to such a school, and she felt that his son should at least learn some knowledge. In the words of her best friend, she did not lose at the starting line.

But after a while, my best friend found something was wrong. She found that her son was always unhappy and seldom took part in group activities. She always sits there alone and asks her son what he has learned, but he can't say it. In the end, she didn't even want to go to kindergarten. She always said that school was boring. Her best friend later had to transfer her son to a public kindergarten near her home.

Sure enough, in the public kindergarten, my son quickly returned to his original lively and happy appearance, singing, dancing and doing handicrafts every day, and he was very happy. For a child who does not belong to this age, it is a burden to be exposed to too much knowledge that he cannot accept. He won't listen, and he will feel disgusted, which is not good for the child's future growth and development. At this age, curiosity is the strongest, and cultivating interest is more important than cramming education. And in fact, most public kindergartens are not expensive.