The most important thing in a university is not reading, but "strengthening the brain"; No matter how good the book is, it's no use using your brain badly. What others say is not their own. Think about people, things and yourself, unless you want to be a gun in others' eyes. To this end, I advise you to form the habit of reading newspapers every day and think about what will happen. It won't take you much time, but it will make you learn a lot. Just remember, be objective, be tolerant, not extreme, and don't walk into a dead end.
2. Learn to plan your study life.
In college, teachers will not force you to learn, and parents will not supervise you every day. Everything depends on whether you can manage yourself and arrange yourself. Think about it. Every year, college enrollment expansion, undergraduate graduation is equal to unemployment. Do you want to join the recruitment army after graduation and let others control their own destiny? Or do you want to raise your own capital and let yourself control your own destiny as much as possible? If it is the former, congratulations, your university will be very easy after three years, but after three years, you will be very painful; If it is the latter, I advise you to prepare for undergraduate transfer, postgraduate entrance examination and even going abroad from now on. On the other hand, we should independently arrange our own expenses, food, clothing, housing and transportation, and don't make ends meet. It is absolutely unpleasant to have the last meal without the next.
3. Learn to be kind to others.
In the past, you were a pupil in the eyes of teachers, a child in the eyes of parents and a little guy in the eyes of outsiders. You can do something wrong, and everyone can forgive you because you are "small" However, when you go to college, you can no longer look down on yourself, because you are ready to enter the society and become a "big" person. In the world of "big" people, others have the deepest first impression on you, which directly affects your likes and dislikes and even your work and destiny. So your chances of making mistakes are getting less and less, and the cost of making mistakes is getting higher and higher. You can't change this situation, you have to get used to it. Of course, it is necessary to maintain your own personality, but remember: personality is limited; On some principled issues, if you do something wrong, you may leave a lifelong regret.
4. Learn the lessons you should learn.
No matter what major you study, you should learn a foreign language well. It's hard, but you have no choice. You'd better choose another major that you are interested in, has good employment prospects and has room for further study and development. Before graduation, you will get a double degree, which will not delay your study in this major, but also increase your weight for future postgraduate entrance examination, going abroad and employment. Of course it's hard, you will work harder, but think about it, it's better to be bitter first than sweet first. As long as you plan well and stick to it, you will feel that you are suffering in vain one day.
5. Learn to cherish your body.
Health is the capital of revolution, making money to support the family; Especially after working for many years, you will have a deeper understanding of this. Therefore, insist on arranging exercise twice a day. In the long run, you will be very healthy and do whatever you want. And when you are upset and in a bad mood, exercise can restore your youth's heart in a short time, which is definitely killing two birds with one stone. In addition, within the limited money and power, pay attention to the nutrition and safety of the body as much as possible; Compared with watching a movie, making friends and traveling, the "belly" problem is the main problem.
I hope you can consider these five things carefully. Don't wait until you think it's important, so there is often no time.