Youth can cover up many problems: poverty, ugliness, obesity, bad temper and bad tongue are all acceptable, after all, youth. But when the fig leaf of "youth" is removed, all the shortcomings will be infinitely magnified.

Learn to say goodbye to things you can't catch.

There is no need to explain your dreams to irrelevant people, as long as your own goals are clear. Others don't care about your great dreams or how hard you work. The most convincing thing is the sudden rise after obscurity.

The list of a truly amazing person's life will include not only love, but also career/friendship/family/interests/hobbies. Even if there is a situation in love, other parts are normal. As long as these big frames exist, his life will not stop because of the temporary lack of a certain part.

What you can't control, you should stay away from it from the beginning. Put it down if you can't hold it. You would rather let it turn into regret than hurt you.

If you don't have strong determination, it's difficult to remain honest and independent. Complex things will constantly impact your weak three views, so it is inevitable to go with the flow.

When you try to change yourself, you will find many people will laugh at you. It's okay. It's not your fault. The more motivated and diligent you are, the more people hate you and envy you.

They will constantly deny you, hit you, throw cold water on you, and do everything possible to convince you that you can't do what they can't.

Where is good for you, where is your hometown? You may get rich because you are far away from the garbage dump, which is just a random birthplace, not your hometown.

Half the trouble in life is that you promise too quickly and refuse too slowly. If we can promise slowly in turn and simply refuse, we can reduce a lot of trouble. If you are confused, think less and act more. All the questions have been thought out and the answers have been worked out.

There is no need to be first, no need to be second, and even no need to compete with them. You just need to surpass most lazy and stupid people to live a relatively good life, and then improve iteratively on this basis.

People must protect themselves before they have more power to do other things. People should be responsible for themselves and their families before they can do other things instead of being a warm-hearted person.

The school won't teach you the knowledge of making money. The knowledge of making money is either led by the nobles or enlightened by themselves. The premise of these two points is to have more contact with the outside world, communicate with people and not immerse yourself in your own small circle.

In fact, there is little difference in self-control between the poor and the rich, but the poor need to consume a lot of self-control when dealing with daily chores, so that the self-control of the poor seems to be weaker than that of the rich when dealing with a specific event.

When the group you belong to can't give you an example and goal in intelligence, morality, experience, thinking and so on, the meaning of gregarious will not exist.

An important life strategy is to only cooperate with reliable people and stay away from unreliable people, which can save a lot of time and energy. Don't try to "make others reliable", it's almost impossible.

Anyone who doesn't hear the cruel truth usually lives in infancy. Man's maturity is half the pursuit of good things and half the acceptance of cruel truth.

Don't imagine that you can convince everyone. Civilization can only have the greatest effect on civilized people. Similarly, the power of logic is limited, and it is limited to those who believe in logic. Because logic is not a necessity for everyone, some people can survive only by prejudice and superstition.

Friends will gradually alienate, which is the truest feeling of many people. We will meet different people in every life, and there will be one or two "short encounters". Similarly, we will lose contact for no reason and gradually alienate each other.

In the past, we would wonder if we did something wrong and there was a gap. Later, I learned that this is actually a change in interpersonal relationships. Most friends will gradually alienate, sooner or later, just accept it slowly.